my step daughter is visiting her mother her mother callled today and said she was fileing a order with the court because her daughter isnt acting like she was before my husband got physical custody of her some things her mom is saying she is doing is as follows,,,,, hitting and scratching her brother,she said she threw a rock at her brother and pushed him off the stairs in which his daughter said her brother threw the rock first.i would like to point some things out his daughter is not like this at our house at ALL
she is a good girl.also her mom just got papers she needs to pay 80.00 a week in child sapport in which she is always yelling about how she doesnt want to pay child sapport so we think she wants custody back because she wants her 95.00 a week my husband was paying before.ok my question is what will happen when he goes back to court.they have been in and out of court for over a year now.any sugestions please
2006-09-03 07:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Tanya 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
his daughter is 5 years old
2006-09-03 07:49:00 · update #1
her brother is 6 and her sister is 8
2006-09-03 07:50:25 · update #2
would the court halt visitation to her moms house to find out what going on there if i request it???
2006-09-03 07:52:47 · update #3
You did not say how old your stepdaughter is, is she old enough to say where she wants to live? It may be a money thing, tell your husband to just try and be the best parent he can be, and teach and train her to be good person. As long as your household is a healthy and clean, and you are not doing any thing wrong, she will not get her daughter back.
2006-09-03 07:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if the little girl truly don't act this way at your home A: the mother is makeing it all up .or B: the problem lies at the home of the mother the little girl may not be happy there the age of the children are a big factor in this case but just from what you have given it sounds that the mom don't want to pay and is reaching for an excuse hang in there they had a reason for overturning the custody of these children in the first place back to the dad so chin up let her do what she thinks will win her kids back in the end that will most likely not be the case.again the ages of these kids will matter
2006-09-03 14:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there are other "issues" going on, its deeper than what the X is saying...look deeper and find out what is going on.Never accept things as 1 diminsional. tALK TO THE KIDS AND GIVE THAT X A NEW SET OF BRAINS. The court issue can work both ways ....just work it honey...good luck
2006-09-03 14:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Smith & Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋