Everyone looses something/someone important in their lifetime, but all cope with it differently.Someone stole my cell phone yesterday which was like my life, but I don't know how to cope. I don't want to fall to pieces, but I think I will... because everything in my life has been going downhill for the past week.
Help?
2006-09-03 07:33:35 · 10 answers · asked by 2cute4u 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
how do you get over it??!
And crying doesnt help me! I have tried crying but it hurts too much to cry!
And throwing tantrums really gets me no where!
2006-09-03 07:41:44 · update #1
A cell phone can be replaced! Let's put this in perspective. You have not lost a friend or relative to death. You do not have a fatal disease. Your home has not burned down. Now...what were you saying about your cell phone? A little perspective goes a long way.
2006-09-03 07:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept the loss and move on. I know that's easy to say rather than do but I think doing anything else is a waste of energy. I hope you manage to get your phone back.
2006-09-04 02:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably a process you may well have to go through. Try to concentrate on re-establishing what you have lost. There are lessons here in backing up important information to protect yourself from such loss in the future.
2006-09-03 14:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Robert A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is the source of your problem change your thinking habits send all neg ones to the fire and keep only the ones that bring you peace Through this you will grow more independant and secure. D
2006-09-03 14:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by D. N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, yeh... that really does suck. Try to look at any postive thing that happened in your week tho, instead of dwelling on the bad. Try to smile, and hey... maybe you were due for a new phone anyhoow
2006-09-03 14:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Shames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a temper-tantrum like a 3 year old
2006-09-03 14:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
CRY BUT THEN GET OVER IT CAUSE YOU CAN'T SAY SAD 4EVER AND TRY TO MOVE ON WITH LIFE
2006-09-03 14:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it.
2006-09-03 14:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I grieve... then I get over it... then I get on with my life.
2006-09-03 14:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on do you think they are really worrying about you?
2006-09-03 14:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋