2006-09-03 07:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by ising4bling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah, it is hard to do, but she has to know
2006-09-03 07:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Surfer guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, for a number of reasons:
1) She could have just as many transgressions on her record as him (it IS a possibility);
2) They have an open marriage and she knows about all of them.
3) Unless you can prove it, it would end up being your word against his, causing strife between all three of you. Those are heavy accusations to level against someone. You may lose your friend if she doesn't believe you, but you still could cause so much doubt in her mind that she can't get over the sheer possibility and they end up separating.
2006-09-04 04:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If you didn't tell her about the first one, why bother telling her now. 100 different lovers is quite a lot, either she knows about them and is in denial, or they have an open relationship that you know nothing about. Either way, it's messed up, not your business, and will only lead to problems. Some things are better left alone.
2006-09-03 07:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fhe really has had that many lovers, your friend almost surely knows. if she is happy in the relationship, and he is treating her well, it would likely just cause tension between you and her if you told her. if she DOESN'T know, and you've known about all of the affairs without telling her as soon as you found out, then she will wonder why you waited so long to tell her. i'd say, let sleeping dogs lie, unless she asks you.
2006-09-03 07:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes your true friend its best to behonest.She might not believe you so you might have to get proof.Just understand if she gets mad.Be there for her.Take her out dancing to kep her mind off things.Just think how you would feel and just come ou tand say it.Be blunt.
2006-09-03 07:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to know, if it's that obvious to you and everyone else and if it really has been that many affairs. apparently, she doesn't want to admit the truth though, so i wouldn't say anything. i wouldn't normally say that, but with the sheer numbers of affairs this man has had, she has got to know about it.
2006-09-03 07:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that woman doesn't know about it by now there is no hope for her. Don't bother , keep your nose out of it, she is not very observant of her husband not to know something . wow.. but maybe she doesn't care ..
2006-09-03 07:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, since she's your friend. Perhaps you could do it by way of anonymous typed letter.
2006-09-03 07:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by SunDancer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...if she is really your friend u should have the first time her husband did something like this
2006-09-03 07:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by nobody u know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She should kno. That is something no one should keep to themselves.
2006-09-03 07:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mariah Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no let her find out by herself, ever heard the saying shoot the messenger.
2006-09-03 07:35:48 · answer #11 · answered by Jo -Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋