2006-09-03 07:31:08 · 10 answers · asked by Firemans_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u need to set a mood. have a beautiful dinner @ home ro another place. then watch a romantic movie 2 gether, but b4 u watch it (during the previews) go and gte dressed into soemthing sexy, but comfortable. and then just work your magic! do watever u think will make him feel good!
2006-09-03 07:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by maeble5293 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to talk to him and find out why he don't want to have more sex with you. It could be some thing about you personally or may be he finds that you are not that hot in bed.
Or it could be that he himself is not that hot at all. It is best to talk things over and base on that you can decided to get professional help if it has to come to that. You two have been together for some six years and may be marriage and children are on the horizon. After putting so much time in a relationship, it is best to get things right, as it is becoming harder to meet good people to stay in a relationship as long as you two have.
2006-09-03 14:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he's not up for it more often. if he's honest, you'll be able to deal with that reason specifically. the other person could be right, who said he might be cheating, you might be out of shape, etc. but maybe HE is the one who's out of shape, and feels bad about it, and doesn't want you to see his body anymore. or he is unemployed, and feels "unmanly" b/c of that. depressed about something--it's one of the side effects of depression. stressed. physically unable to get it up--in which case he should see a doctor ASAP. there's so many reasons it could be--that's why you need to have a talk. just be kind about it. let him know you find him attractive and want to be with him more often. remind him that you want HIM to fill that need in your life, not anyone else. it may be something silly. who knows til you ask?
2006-09-03 14:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by crystal_sea24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix him a hardy meal and wear something sexy. do this when ever you are in the mood. he'll eventually get the picture. also try putting a picture of you in something sexy somewhere he will see it but know one else will. my husband likes me to wake him up with a BJ so you might try that too.
2006-09-03 14:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by storm_magus3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change a person's sex drive. Accept it or leave him for a more amorous man.
2006-09-04 07:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow him enough time to have meals. He's probably out of energy.
2006-09-03 14:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
shiit if u told me that
i wud be ***** HAPPY
cuz thats a ***** dream for a women to
say that
2006-09-03 14:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by YES SIR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in better shape, take better care of yourself, be better at sex, get him to stop cheating on you, look better...
2006-09-03 14:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u may hav freindship with me
2006-09-03 14:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by KILLER 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try new ways to have s**
2006-09-03 14:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by mell14716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋