2006-09-03 07:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i love it when my wife is at home! that is sooo sexy!
2006-09-03 07:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by ROBERT N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always about whats best for the home, its often about what is necessary, everything is so expensive these days that most homes require two incomes to survive. Its also about the people involved. Some women just aren't the stay at home with the kids type, often they have worked hard to get their education and cultivate their careers and will be miserable if they give that up for dirty diapers and baby talk. A home NEVER benefits from an unhappy member of the family. It is far more complicated than whats 'best' and sometimes the obvious answer (which will probably be she stays at home) is not really the 'best' answer. If she is unhappy she will leave eventually and then their will no 'home', at least not the way it was before. Besides men have proven far too often that being dependant on them for your income and support is NOT a wise thing to do. With the divorce rate being what it is there is at least a 50% chance that women will end up really screwed when they put themselves in that situation. I'd say that if you want that kind of life you need to marry that kind of girl, and you need to make darn sure that you are truly committed to caring for and being responsible to that person forever. What you don't do is marry a career woman and then expect her to change because you see it as 'best' for the woman to be at home, you lose that fight before it ever really starts.
2006-09-03 07:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a hard question because they are both good:
working women contribute to the household financially and housewifes contribute to the housework and the children instead of placing them in daycare which can be a bit scary. Anyway I do both I am home during the week and work 24 hours on the weekends I like it better for now because I can stay home with our 7 month old.
2006-09-03 08:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by chickannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
home? a housewife, of course. but if the wife is a working woman, then, the couple should make some arrangements and agree on something. in case of absentee husband, it's a heavy load for the woman to be a housewife and needs to earn at the same time. so, she has to be both.
best for the home... love, respect, understanding and unity. family life is tough. but a family with strong foundation stays.
2006-09-03 07:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by di_ako_guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 08:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If small children are at home, I think it is a wonderful idea for at least one parent(not necesarrily the wife) be a stay at home person in order to give them their guidance. Due to the breakdown of the traditional family and all of the temptations that are quite alluring to kids(drugs, gangs, bad influences of other children, etc) our society is starting to run out of control. I am not even old fashioned at all but I know for a fact that I would have gotten into much more mischief had I not had a parent at home.
2006-09-03 07:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have a baby or a kid under school age you should stay at home. Once your kids are old enough to go to school I would recommend the wife to get a job. I know from experience that a man will disrespect you if you do not have a job. They think that if they have to pay all the bills they should be able to say where it goes and be able to do what they want.
2006-09-03 07:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a housewife is find if that's what you want as a woman and it is financially doable. But if you want to work then you should work. Women have to realize that they have to be true to themselves before they can be any good to anyone else. You have to live for yourself, so you can be truly happy and not just living to make everyone else happy.
Therefore, it's up to you.
2006-09-03 07:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do mean the home or the children? For the children I think it's best if one of the parents, either mom or dad, is home with them. At least until they are all in school. Sometimes parents afford for one of them to stay home. And, if both parents enjoy their jobs they are more likely to have a happier home-life.
2006-09-03 07:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of relationship the couple has and it also depends whether kids are involved. im a working women and i think that there needs to be a balance. it shouldnt all be the man's responsibility to go out to work and for the women to stay at home and cook , it's nice to do housework and cook together or swap, it's much more interesting and shows sharing commitment and not boring to leave all housework for one partner and the other goes to work. i hope this helps.
2006-09-03 07:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a working woman, b/c we both can't stay at home.
2006-09-03 07:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋