2006-09-03 07:09:59 · 27 answers · asked by Arul selvan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
why do you want to in the first place?!?!
ANYWAYS, HERE:
~*~ EXPRESS.... n it'll all b over.
~*~ BUSY yourself in other things.... that is get involved in stuff that'll help you deviate your mind or sumthing
~*~ SOCIALISE.... n u'll end up finding sum1 else...
2006-09-05 23:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by the_rip_roaring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sexual attraction is like most of you said "normal" but sometimes it depends on the person your attracted to. They might have a strong sexual vibe that your feeding off. Then it becomes really hard to resist. That is where self-control comes in, some people either have or they don't I guess. Maybe not. I can control myself sometimes, but other times the attraction is so strong that you think "how could you even pass it up" Also for me there has to be a vibe, I'm not saying fu(k every piece of a@@ that walks up. Sometimes though, you just can't control yourself. I guess I may be of no help at all.
2006-09-08 12:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual urges and attractions are controllable. If they were not what a world this would be !!! The other person may not want to respond to your urge, and if you persisted that would be rape, and possibly conception out of wed lock. The first thing you should remember is that one should be married before having sexual intercourse, if you are not married, take a cold shower and find something else you like doing , or develop some kind interest to pursue instead . . of dwelling on your attraction
2006-09-10 16:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by pooterilgatto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with the same guy for six years in fact we live together but sometimes I have sexual attraction for other people. It is not controlable just do not act on it and things will be ok!
2006-09-03 14:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Firemans_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say if it's more a physical urge (lust) or a more mental process(all the time)
if its purely physical-- exercise or masturbation will help
if it's more amind thing--remove yourself from the thoughts by doing something like crosswords or read a book that will make you concentrate on the content-then when the anxiety phase has passed you can think about the person in a more relaxed way
2006-09-10 20:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be attracted sexually.
But you want to control it.
This is tough, yet but can be achieved.
Answer is will power, society pressure, present commitment......there are so many reason to control ones feeling that I am sure you can also think of some more.
I hope this will help.
2006-09-03 20:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self control is the best way, try to mix up lots of people so that you do not feel lonely.
As an empty mind is devils workshop keep yourself busy in some activity or the other
2006-09-09 05:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by ksunil r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural & why you want to control. You can control by YOGA up to sone extent. Or When you feel more sexual attraction go to bathroom & do masturbation & you will feel relief.
2006-09-05 01:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by narendra k 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi man, cool and enjoy d feelings if u ever control tis then tht's last u always ill be attempt to tht. stoping is the beignning of d things
2006-09-08 05:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by gs v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still attracted to the one your with... theres no specifics. I would say look but dont touch.
2006-09-11 12:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mariah&Lydias_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋