2006-09-03 06:15:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yeah but thy are to compromise together if they cant do this then they are doomed to fail.
2006-09-03 06:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal way to remedy this is to realize that marriage is not a 50/50 union . It is a 100 / 100 % giving of yourself to the other person . Caring about the other person more than yourself . We are a very selfish society . Looking out for what we think is good for us , yet we don't learn the basics anymore . If we do , we tend to get caught up in what everyone else is presenting to the public and start to follow their lead. Sometimes just because we are stretched too far or stressed or tired ... the list goes on .
Little do we realize that our lives would be calmer and less stressful if we put others before ourselves once in a while ! Can you IMAGINE ? If we are concerned about or mates more than ourselves we won't care who's THE ONE . we actually will be one .
2006-09-03 06:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what sort of marriage you have, my husband and I are 'one' and after 22 years together we still are, we never take each other for granted and talk about everything before we make decisions, some marriages appear to be 'one' but those are the sort that only think of 'Number 1'.
2006-09-03 13:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women marry men and expect marriage to change their husbands.
Men marry women and expect their wives to stay the same as they were before they were married.
Both have to face disappointment. Its whether both sides can accept this for the good of their union.
2006-09-03 06:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rich N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. Funny. And true. I think the idea is that they become a new one, together. Anyway I don't buy that. I think people would last longer in relationships if they held onto their independance.
2006-09-03 06:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I marry I will become one with my best friend, my soulmate, my lover, my life.
We are and will continue to be different parts of a machine, both having a role to keep it going. If one falls, we both fall together. When we are both syncronised, we thrive , weathering the bad times and reaping the good times. We will continue to have a wonderful life together
2006-09-03 06:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by 675 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called both of you giving 100% to the other and being willing to compromise to make the other person happy. It should never always be about 1 person.
2006-09-03 06:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by KIT-KAT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should always talk about things together and come up with solutions together. you might have a good idea or the other person might have a good idea. sometimes it takes both opinions to come up with a good solution
2006-09-03 06:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by GIGGLES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other one.
Live you marriage for the other one.
This is easy for about two weeks. Then marriage becomes work.
If you don't plan on working on it, don't get married, and please don't have children.
2006-09-03 06:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by LorettoBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha I like your style...your right though. My friends marriage is on the rocks at the moment. She thinks she wears the trousers... and he paints his toenails !!!
2006-09-03 06:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by a cottage by the sea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man he he
2006-09-03 06:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋