What do you do after u had a long silence with ur best friend?

Question

If you had a big fight between u and ur best friend and did not talk to each other for weeks now. What do u do? Start talking or just get on with ur life alone? Or pretend that it never happened? Your call..What do you do?

Answer 1

u get with things you can speak if you want and maybe get the same friendship you had or maybe get more independence without ur friend being there every minute ,basically its up to u and ur friend if u want to be the same as it was or different.

Answer 2

just give her a call i never spoke to my best friend for nearly a year because our lives went in different directions and then on an off chance i called her and arranged to meet we then caught up on old times and what each other had been doing and it was like that gap year never happened and we were inseparable once again and vowed not to allow it to happen again best friends will always be there for you when you need them so don't lose them
send them this text this should do the trick it brought a smile to my face when i got it

"A ring is round and has no end that's how long I'll be your friend"

Answer 3

Well, my friend and I had that situation last year, and for a while I was fuming and I thought to myself "who needs a friendship with her?" But as the weeks and then months went on, I thought how much I really love her and of all the fun things we had done together over the years and I finally called her cell and left a voice mail to tell her that I was sorry for the silence between us and that I loved her and I hope she could find it in her heart to try to patch things up. She called back later that evening and we realized that neither of us could really remember why we had fought in the first place.
Everything has been fine since.

If you really love your friend try patching things up. You'll be glad you did.

Answer 4

The question is do you want to continue your friendship with your best friend or not? Only you know the answer to that question. I think that you do want your best friend back because if you didn't, there is nothing to do. If you don't want to be friends, just continue with the silence.

But you do want to be friends, don't you? OK, you have to make the first move even though it is very difficult. You can phone, e-mail, whatever - you have to contact your friend.

OK, you contact your friend, but do you talk about what happened? I don't know what your friend is like - does he like to talk about difficulties or does he prefer to ignore it? What do you feel most comfortable doing? There is no right or wrong answer - you have to do what is good for you and your friend. But the main thing is to show your friend that you still want to be friends. Good luck!

Answer 5

If you consider this friend to be a valuable part of your life then put your pride in your pocket and make the first move towards saying sorry, even if it wasn't your fault, don't bring the subject up again once its been sorted, just move back onto been friends again and go out and have a good old laugh about life in general.

Answer 6

I would grab the nearest phone and call your friend! Someone has to take the first step! After you said hi etc. tell him/her you want to meet up asap, as you have to talk about whatever happend, if she/he says no, you can always ask the person, if the friendship did'n mean enough to just talk about what happend and you're not planning to take over their life, but just to get it out, en make a sort of ending to that chapter.
pretending nothing happend is to me not an option even.
If I were to afraid to call I would send a letter, but still ask to meet up so you can look eachother in the eye..

Answer 7

i think i would write an email and see what kind of a response you get. that way you don't have to deal with the awkwardness of talking on the phone or face ot face, and you can gage whether she still wants to be your friend or not. if it's really been that long since you guys have talked, I would also take some time to do some soul searching and decide whether you really want to have this person in your life or not.

Answer 8

Sometimes we have best friends who deep down we know are not good for us, not true friends who want the best for us or put us first. If you fall out with one of these, move on and find friends that truly care for you. Sometimes we fall out with our best friends because we care about them so much and need to tell things straight, or they truly want the best for us and tell us off to put things straight. If the friendship is that good and true, it will weather the storm and is worth the initial contact.

Did you fall out over something you simply cannot compromise on, or is it just a case of bruised ego and neither wants to back down or be seen to be wrong. Sometimes backing down first is the sign of the bigger person. Only you know.

If you are missing your friend, get in touch,if they accept your contact, it was probably worth it, if not, you gave them a chance, move on.

Answer 9

I can't stand to sacrifice any one of my best friends. There's always something to remind me of our good times so what I normally do is I'd call him first and invite him for a drink; like, "hey, I'd like to visit the bar and I'd like you to go there with me... my treat." That's all and wouldn't talk about our differences over the phone but would rather settle it while we drink. If we smash bottles on each other's head, fine with me still lol. We'd definitely laugh about it later when we're sobered up.

Answer 10

Depends how serious the fight was ?and how much you miss them? Are you prepared to be sorry? and could you live without them? Best friends are hard to come by you might wanna try talking through your problems!