hey im 13 and my boy freind is trying to have sex with me what should i do?

Answer 1

umm well if you don't want to have sex with him, then don't. you should dump him if you say no and he doesn't listen to you. you need to be respected by your significant other in a relationship.

Answer 2

First of all, how old is this boyfriend. Second if say, think, or feel like you're not ready then you defintely aren't. Third, if this guy is pressuring you when you have already said " no, I'm not ready." kick his a** to the curb. There are other things that should be on your mind right now and sex isn't one of them.But, you should act maturely and find someone you can talk to about this, or find some helpful info on the subject. Knowledge is power, so don't go into this with your eyes closed. Be good, be safe, wrap it up, or just say no.

Answer 3

Are u mad? first of all learn what is the meaning of sex. Since u r 13 you have to go long way before even think about what your boy trying to do to you. Ask him to wait for another 10 years

Answer 4

Tell him NO and share this information with your parents. This boy does NOT have your best interest at heart, if he really cared for you he would not be asking a 13 y/o for sex. I am sure he is a sweet boy...but you are too young..wait for the real thing it will be worth it!

Answer 5

How old is he? Tell him to forget it and wait until you are ready. I would tell him that you will be ready in a couple of years and see what he says. Whatever you do, don't lead him on. He may get really frustrated and that may lead to trouble. Be prepared for him to leave you if that is the thing he is really interested rather than a relationship.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Tell him no. You don't want to end up pregnant. It's a really really huge life changing event.

I've had guys dump me because I wouldn't sleep with them when I was older- like in my 20's....and I've found there is always someone else that will accept my decision - and respect me more for NOT sleeping around.

Answer 7

Don't do it, this is something you will regret. Tell him he does not have respect for you, that if he did, he would not be pressuring you. tell him you have plenty of time for that, now you need to concentrate on school, do you know what happens sometimes, when you have sex with a boy, he will go back and tell everyone, I had her, she is easy. save yourself for the right one, at the right time.

Answer 8

Is he 13 too? If so u r both to young. Tell him that u r too young and not ready to have sex, hopefully he will understand.

Answer 9

I wouldn't have sex yet, tell him you are not ready if he cares about you he will wait. school is the most important thing for you right now. without an education how will you support your child if you got pregnant? enjoy your teen years while you can sex can wait!

Answer 10

I was your age when I lost my viginity, and I don't regret it. BUT I'm still with the guy. My advice is if you don't truely love him and can't see yourself with him forever, or if you can't imagine having a kid with him RIGHT NOW, the DON'T do it!!! Do you want a baby? Because condoms break, and birth control's only 99.9% accurate.

Answer 11

Tell him>>> "NO."
You won't be valued as a "good" (clean) if you do... he may even look down his nose at you later & throw it up in your face during a fight... & you could end up being called a winch (or worse).
He may say that he wouldn't think of you that way or treat you that way... but don't count on it.