My boyfriend and I went about 200 miles from home on a trip which was supposed to start at 8 am. He waited until his 27 yr old mooching son who just moved back home again with his pregnant girlfriend could get out of bed and shower, to go so we didnt leave until almost noon and were over 3 hours late. I ended up paying for supper because we were late and the picnic food had been sitting out on the table hours.
I am getting so aggrivated that he lets these kids control our lives. Should I dump him?
2006-09-03 05:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes dump him.
2006-09-03 05:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't dump him right off...you should discuss the issues you have with his mooching son first. Do you live with the guy? If not then I don't think you really have much to say in the matter...if you do, then I am going to guess you pay for your share of the bills etc. and therefore you would have a say. Its frustrating I'm sure but you need to hash it out with him first before you make a rash decision that you might regret later
2006-09-03 12:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question, but sorry I do not have an answer for that. You will have to answer than one yourself. When you get back from your trip, take some time, by yourself, sit down with a pen and a piece of paper and make 2 sections- 1 to read PRO, the other to read Con. Then start writing and see what type of answer you get from that. Good luck
2006-09-03 12:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The son sounds like a real "winner" & at 27, he should be out on his own, not mooching off you & your boyfriend. I would have told him the time you were leaving, & if he & his ladyfriend, wernt up & ready, I would have left without them. It's time to get a few things straight with your boyfriend & his son, Either, the son moves out, or you do, simple as that, you dont have to put up with somebody elses lazy kid.
2006-09-03 12:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about it first of all. Let him know how you feel. Otherwise nothing will change. If he then says he is not bothered at all by it, you may want to reconsider your relationship. It is his son, but at the same time, an adult who should act as a responsible one. Were it I, I would have left at 8am weather the son was ready or not.
:)
2006-09-03 12:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents let their kids take advantage of them. It seems like this is happening to your bf. Talk to him and tell him how unhappy you are that his boy and friend is controlling the amount of time you spend together. By the way, why did you have to pay for supper?
2006-09-03 12:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him-if he's putting the mooching kid and his girlfrien ahead of you, there's a problem.
2006-09-03 13:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dump him, i hate kids and would never date anyone who has any.
2006-09-04 22:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A resounding YES.
2006-09-04 08:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is just trying to look after his kids alright they may be useless but it is an admirable trait that he is trying to help them out better to have him than some jerk off.
2006-09-03 12:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by MetallicaRule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't stand up to his own son, then dump him.
2006-09-03 12:41:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋