2006-09-03 04:40:51 · 3 answers · asked by brianna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really believe he has only been with you, then you need a wake up call! I was married to such a guy for 19 years and I left him. He cried and begged and pleaded for me to stay. To this day he tries to get me back. Meanwhile he has moved in one of his lovers who also has a daughter with him, he also has another one we call Spider Monkey that he has bought a car with and is bumping, and he pays her bills. The one he's moved in is left paying for their trailer rent and everything. He also is bumping the one he moved in's best friend Terry! I know this for a fact! He meets Terry all week for lunch and on Friday's, when Spider Monkey is off work, he meets her for lunch.He will never change! Guys do not see other woman just for the heck of it hun! You better wake up and smell the roses because he is doing them! You deserve better and should send Casanova walking. He is not a one woman man and probably never will be. It's not worth the heartache and all that you are submitting yourself to. There are a lot of guys who are faithful and know how to treat a lady. This guy you're with has issues that you will never solve. It is his problem and you should get out now! I had two kids with mine and for a long time that was my excuse, but the kids would be much better off without a situation like this. Mine are permantly scarred because I stayed with that and the abuse for too many years. I should have left way before I did! Don't wait until it's too late and stop making excuses. it will never change! You deserve better.
2006-09-03 04:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by i'mmakingdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way, a guy has his favorite food, say, his fave food is spaghetti. he always have his spaghetti and there will come a time when he will crave for a salad. just to make a change, and so, he goes and have a taste of salad. but he will always go back to his favorite spaghetti no matter how good salad tastes like. same with guys and the girls they date. i hope you get what i mean. lol!
2006-09-03 05:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by yiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is insecurity, and then it is immaturity, They have their cake, and can eat it too. At this day and time, with all the disease's, out their, they should be afraid.
2006-09-03 04:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋