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I have found that online many women put pictures of themselves and yet they complain about the kind of male bloggers that try to or do communicate with them. If the image has a lewdness to it, then what can one expect?
Also, ever since the advent of email services electronic communty systems have been extensions of the old phone sex networks. It is a cycle that does not seem to change

2006-09-03 04:23:57 · 5 answers · asked by Monsignor Klaatu 2 in Social Science Gender Studies

Can you be specific by race?
here is an example
http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-N7vq9dkhaalNRe.9U_C9GjfUok4lmaW5mQ--?cq=1&bid=164&yy=2006&mm=4&l=81&u=85&mx=86&lmt=5&p=18

2006-09-03 04:25:07 · update #1

5 answers

Generally, in my experience, a woman wants to be accepted as who she is -- regardless of her physical looks -- but it's very difficult sometimes to find and unveil that beautiful core for themselves and feel confident enough to let it shine, without fear of being rejected.

And we can't help it, but part of our self-asteem is still tied into physical appearance. It takes a long time to feel comfortable with one's physical appearance.

So while women want the man to be attracted to them because of who they are, it's easier to get his attention with an attractive picture. Men respond to physical beauty quickly, before they even know anything about the person; in fact, often they can even tolerate a beautiful woman whom they don't like, until they decide she's not worth dating.

The thing women don't understand is how easily men can be attracted to the physical without caring about the underlying parts; for them, they're interested more in a good man who values them as people (and the physical attractiveness in a mate follows that).

So when they go fishing with a pretty image, they're going to reel in both guys who might be deep, as well as a ton of guys who just want to possess the image and are attracted to her looks, without actually caring either way for the woman. In fact, some of the deeper guys -- the ones capable of valuing the woman as a person -- will be hesitant to approach just based on a picture and are looking for something deeper.

So there's a chance she's possibly even just fishing with the wrong bait and has more odds of attracting the sort of guy who wants to hook up with a good-looking woman, then move on to the next.

Especially if the picture is sexually suggestive, the odds of this shoot way up. You're going to get the sexual-minded guys out for a cheap score, and scare off the more sensitive, more mature guys.

2006-09-03 05:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jennywocky 6 · 0 0

Women blog because they can. Contrary to male opinion, women are not constantly on the prowl for a man whether it is for sex or marriage.

Men interpret what they read in a way that suits their mind set. And of course, most of you think with your male part so what you comprehend from your reading is that the woman is slutty and hot to trot.

If what you are reading comes across as lewd to you, that is your interpretation. Those women who want to communicate in a lewd manner will leave no doubt in your mind as to what they are asking for or talking about.

Please stop assuming that women are writing about what you are thinking about 24-7.

2006-09-03 04:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0 0

Oh yes I have gone to some women's blogs and they do contain email addresses or websites that sell video's etc. for money so I would imagine that down the line they are selling more than just a photo of them in their undies. If you log onto a 360 page that has one of these ladies plugging herself chances are her listed friends are all in the same business.

2006-09-03 04:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0 0

because regardless of what they say about the male bloggers, they just want to see which random people think they're pretty.

2006-09-03 05:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, "Monsignor", you're obviously checking them out too!

2006-09-03 04:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Judy L 4 · 0 0

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