2006-09-03 04:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by M D 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Leave a tape or a videotape running in places where they may be talking about you and see what happens.You'll probably be amazed!
2006-09-03 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know they are talking about you? If it is one person it may be possible to ask for help. For example in the UK it's against the law to gossip about people at work e.g. about their sexual preference or relationships, and you can be disciplined for that. If it is less serious than that, if for example someone tells you "X said you had done or said this or that", just look surprised and say "Really? Is that what he told you?" Then just laugh and walk away. It will make the other person realise that he can't necessarily believe everything he's been told by X, who may have a personal agenda.
2006-09-03 04:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus...this situation sucks. Sounds to me like your getting fucked from all sides. Hmmm. As far as coping your going to have to ignore because just thinking about it at all is going to upset/piss you off. The confrontation thing is questionable. It could go all wrong but if you want to just have it out get them one at a time individually. This is what I would say (if you are 100% sure they were talking about you):
I heard you talking about me the otherday. Talking about people behind their back is cowardly. If you have an issue with me at Ieast have the balls to say it to my face. So what is your problem with me?
2006-09-03 06:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes not agressively say if you have a problem with me please
tell all now and lets stop this foolish infantile behaviour once and for all. You'll be surprised how they are to shocked to speak
I have always believed that If you come straight to the point people will respect you and im sure they wont want another confrontation. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-03 06:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an ongoing problem and the best answer remains the same, send them true and loving thoughts then watch as the neg behavior melts away before the power of the true spirit
2006-09-03 06:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by D. N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally when it happened to me i confronted the two people at work as well as my manager the result was a full blown argument with all three of them needless to say today is my last day in this job, as i move to bigger and better
so screw all three of them
2006-09-03 04:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by gjs_coupedrive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I walk up to them and pop them in the mouth
2006-09-03 04:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by guido_adonis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Problem! I`d confront them then deck them!
2006-09-03 07:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. People aren't stupid. They'll eventually figure out the truth about you and/or about the people spreading those rumors. And if they don't figure it out, they weren't worth worrying about in the first place. Be who you want to be in life; the people who care, don't really matter, and the people that really matter don't care.
2006-09-03 05:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering how a mere hole suddenly aquired skills heretofor associated with humans
2006-09-04 02:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋