Ok I have a nephew right! but his older than me, so we say were cousins right! he has this girl friend that treats him like $hit! and he’s parents don’t like her and well neither dose the rest of the familie like her! so yesterday after we went to the movies (to see crank) he said that he’s Engaged!(like going to get married) and im his dads, brother and I dot know if I should tell him!(my brother) or just leave it!
(he’s been in and out of the hospital for poping pills, and running away! he’s a completely different person then the one I used to know!)
I don’t know what to do if I tell he will hate me- if I don’t and his parents find out, then the whole thing will come blowing back at me!- If I tell my other older brother than he would tell him! It will come back at me and I still look bad! what should i do!
"HE 18" and been at the hospitail 2 times in less than a month!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 04:00:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Games & Recreation ➔ Toys
hes mad at his parents and most likley he will!
2006-09-03 04:03:47 · update #1
my family HATES HER!
2006-09-03 04:04:24 · update #2
sorry hes"17"
2006-09-03 04:37:42 · update #3
You are his only ally and telling him not to marry her will just make
him break all ties with the family and marry her out of spite.
2006-09-03 04:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raise hell and tell everyone. Or rather just tell the one person in the family who has a big mouth and let them tell everyone.
Or, its kind of hard to do, but you could just let it go. Let him run away and pop pills and marry her. It's really none of your business what he does, and to be the best friend (or cousin or whatever you are) would be to completely butt out. Sounds like this kid is heading down a path of heartache and trouble, and it would be wise if you weren't dragged along with him. He can't hate you if you simply drop out instead of judging him.
Yes it sucks he is doing this, but people usually mellow out between 24 and 30. He, too, will eventually grow up.
(Or call the mental hospital on him and get him committed, but then he will hate you for sure.)
2006-09-03 04:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by emilystartsfires 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On one hand you danged if you do and danged if you don't so its a wash. Go ahead and tell your brother. On the other hand, your nephew / cousin is of legal age (18) so it isn't like theres much of anything your brother or anyone else can legally do to stop him from entering into wedded
2006-09-03 04:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by TROUBLE T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ur not fit to get married
tell him u should be medicaly/mentally fit for marriage
marriage bring too much pressure and responsibility
on shoulder on both partner
otherwise it looks ur cousin is psychic he may be liking the treatment he got from her GF.
2006-09-03 04:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by dilemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be sure of his decisions. They can last a lifetime. Marriage is a big responsibility. He needs to make sure he is "healthy" to take on that responsibility. Maybe the girlfriend is pregnant and he wants to do the "right thing".
2006-09-05 08:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 05:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it. Just saying hes engaged does not mean he will marry her.
2006-09-03 04:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and find out what is going on with him.in my opinion you need to be there to support him, he will realize that he made a wrong decision and he will get rid of her and get his life back together. let him tell his family about his plans for marriage, you should stay out of it.
2006-09-03 04:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look out for his best interest. You would feel awful if he passed away. Look at it that way. I would rather him get mad then gone.
2006-09-03 08:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your decision, Only you can decide what to do but the chances are that they already know
2006-09-03 04:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by col 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋