The only reason I'm asking this is b'cos I don't want to make a mistake and regret it later. I need some help how to ge this person out of my mind. It's mutual we both feel the same way. But I can't go ahead with this. I'm really stressed out. I have to see this person at work everyday. So, it's difficult to stay away or not to think about him. Please help.
2006-09-03 03:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by F D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is very hard to do i think when you work with someone sometime you find your self some time getting very close to them..i know in my case i worked at a place for 20 years and left about 6 months ago ..there was a woman who i worked with we became very close friends proably the closest friend i had ever had..she was also wife of friend of mine who worked at same place we did..anyway to make a long story short a couple of weeks after i left a bunch of us from old place i worked got together for drinks..when everyone had left but me and her she told me she loved me and asked if i would sleep with her if she asked me ..trust me it took everything i had to tell her no but i did and dont regret it..my point is it is very easy to fall in love with someone you work with and very very hard to not give in to temptation but you can do it and sometimes it takes leaving a job to do it..
2006-09-03 04:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by jay s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give into temptation -as Adam and Eve did.
Knowing that you both feel the same way is deffinately tempting, however to control this-you might want to just try talking on the phone or writing little notes back and forth until the temptation subsides. On the other hand-if it is a sexual temptation-you really should keep your distance unless you want something to come of the situation. An affair of any kind is not really good at work. Cuz if it doesn't work out, you have just put yourself in another situation. Good luck with what ever you deside.
2006-09-03 04:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by 1 4 U 2 4 ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of the possibilities or what ifs. Stop your fantasizing. When you find yourself swaying into thoughts that you are highly attracted to this person "STOP". Instead enjoy the Innocent flirting and mutual attraction, but after that stop yourself from the what ifs?? well perhaps, or just maybe. Those are the thoughts that will lead you into trouble. Don't see this person out of work, that could only lead to mistakes. No Lunches!! Affairs in the work place are never a good idea. The tips on just shutting your mind off of the what ifs, is the way people who are married handle those situations. It is called self discipline.
2006-09-03 04:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel lust and temptation, you don't necessarlity need to "fight it" just control it. You're both adults, it might not be the wrong decision to explore your feelings or urges for one another. If you both have a level head you can deal with the consequences afterwards, but either way you won't need to put up with the day-to-day temptations anymore.
2006-09-03 04:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by dkilbey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of this person when you masturbate. That should help appease your feelings and then you can come up with all the crazy scenarios you want! Good Times!
2006-09-03 04:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him/her real love why you have to keep here/him away from you it's good to stay to gather and forget about fears according to to your q there mutual feeling and this is very good and rarely we see people love each other and have the mutual feeling
fight to keep the relationship
2006-09-03 04:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by ggeleceng1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you work together it will be hard but you will have to put him behind you,,,find something else to concentrate on,,if you are in a relationship work on that,if not all you can do is ride it out.it wont last forever.
2006-09-03 04:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn lol you women are very bad.
Hahaha
I didnt know females could be tempted. They dont act like anything could temp them. Whoa!
2006-09-03 04:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a butterfly bullet from Christie's and a great imagination..!!!
2006-09-03 04:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by rhondwht4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time shows. if in a couple of months you both feel the same, maybe all you have to do is give in to it.next
2006-09-03 04:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by unknown u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋