here it is a holiday i am married and have not seen my wife for 2 days she left to think so she says dont know if there is another man we have been married for 2 year @the end of the month
why are women jerks i did not do any thing i am a good husband i cook clean work and end to her dont want to leave but whats a old man to do( but not to old) thank you for reading
2006-09-03 03:50:50 · 29 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have seen some of your other questions and you claim you beat her up and you talk alot about being abusive to her & you're always putting her down. I think she needs to leave your worthless @ss.. You need to grow up & get some mental help. *for all of your personalities*
If you really want to save your marriage get off the damn pc asking questions and go get some mental help, then try to get back with her but if she is smart she wont take you back until you prove you changed.Soooooo Stop being a stupid jerk to her & maybe she might feel sorry for you & come back but i doubt it.
BTW- I feel sorry for any pets she may have left in your care..
2006-09-06 13:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might think you are an older man jerk. I would guess that this problem has been going on for a while and she finally gave up on you. You had two years to get to know here well enough that you could discuss with her why she is unhappy. It sounds like you missed whatever she was saying and are not as great a husband as you imagine (like you didn't mention "our sex life is good" or "she doesn't seem to mind that we live in a dumpy apartment.").
2006-09-03 03:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by some of the other questions you have asked on this site, she has finally wised up, figured out who the REAL JERK is in your marriage! Maybe you can train your cat to fetch your beer now. Mail order a blow-up doll next time, not a wife. Leave the women alone.
2006-09-03 04:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by feather girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people need more alone time than others. It's also a real possibility that she's trying to spare you, trying to protect you from her sad (or cranky) moods. Some people isolate like that, and it has nothing to do with anyone else. Such situations can engender misunderstandings; to avoid that, try to keep communication flowing. If discussions have not been a foundation of your relationship, try to establish dialogue now. Avoiding issues never makes them disappear. Luck.
2006-09-03 04:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is more than cooking, cleaning, and bringing home the $$$$. It's about commitment, meeting her intimate emotional needs (I'm not just talking about sex here, but being empathetic to her needs). Did you recently do something to make her upset? Does she think that your marriage is routine and there's no "spark" anymore?
When she gets back, have candles burning, buy her flowers....let her know that she's important and that you love her. Then, you need to sit down and have a good heart to heart with her. Let her speak and you just listen with a completely open mind. It will help her feel better and may just get things back on track. Good Luck!
2006-09-03 03:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only jerk in your life is you! And, didn't you just post a "question" complaining about your lazy wife not doing fast enough all of the things you claim here that you do for yourself? Your "facts" don't compute and your history of "questions" showing no respect for women prove that, if there really is a woman in your life, she will do herself a favor to find "another man"!
2006-09-03 09:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I AM an older woman and I am certainly NOT a jerk. Seems your assumptions may have driven your wife to act in the way she does. Just because you cook and clean doesn't make you the number one husband. Perhaps it's your obvious view on women!!!!
2006-09-03 05:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her this space now,but never shut her out again.Has to be a problem you both need to discuss when she gets back.It probably is a little of both of you guys ,and a lot of pain is not getting you two anywhere like this.But,with that said,appreciate her need for space right now.You are doing the right thing by venting to us,but don't think jerk is correct,just mis-guided.
2006-09-03 04:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there probley is another man. lust is a powerful thing. sometimes the same old routine gets boring,people need to spice the marriage up .you get comfortable in the relationship,& everyday stuff and forget about each others needs and drift apart.
2006-09-03 04:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just proving there is more than one jerk man on this site.
What cant even think of your own question you have to use someone else.
At least you could have corrected spelling and grammar.
LOL
2006-09-03 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋