contacting the ex?

Question

wen we started dating he had to go away after 2 weeks of meeting him abroad, for more then a month. he called me from abroad a few times and so did i. when he came back he was under alot of stress due to financial matters. anyway, we where together for around 3 months. we broke up because i would foreplay but not intercourse and he found that rather strange. anyway, i see him all the time at this place i go to with my friends and he also goes to with his. i have seen him many times looking at me then looking away. i cant understand why. anyway we did say that we would remain friends so i called him to see how he was interms of if his personal probs. i sent a text a few weeks later asking him to call me bak wen he gets the chance as i need to ask somthing and i got a call bak straight away. i chatted and asked him wen he is free to meet up he said that he is really going through some probs at present and will call once things have settled to meet. do u think he still likes me as i do?

Answer 1

Sounds like he needs a little space until he gets over the bad things he's been dealing with. Keep it casual - not more than one call every couple of weeks - and he'll let you know when he's ready to move on from there (he'll call you). If you put pressure on him now, he will run! Just call once in a while and tell him you were wondering how he was doing - nothing heavy.

But face it, he may never come back to you. Keep your options open and spend time with other guys, too. And don't let ANYONE pressure you into intercourse before YOU are ready! If a man can't accept your decision to wait, then he's not worth having.

Answer 2

well,gal anything i say right now would be wrong cos these guys are very smart and you cannot risk it by assuming and imaging,if you feel that he still likes you i suggest just go upto him and ask him straight,to get a clearer picture,instead of cmplicating your life by assuming!!

Answer 3

Yes. He would not have called you back so fast if he did not.