i'm happily married for bout 2 yrs.i have no issues in our marriage by the grace of god.i have a loving husband but sometimes i get very edgy becuz of my hubby's behaviour.every time v r out he's always watching other women *** n boobs n try to show me too(btw my measure are 33'24'34 n i think he finds me a bit skinny.though he has told me that he is obssessed with boobs n ***).v luv each other very much but his this behaviour irritates me.is this aserious issue?i wonder if other husbands also do the same?and do u think with the above mentioned measures am i too skinny?do i need to worry bout this problem?
2006-09-03 03:38:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl,
1.) You have an excellent figure, men die for such figure.
2.) All men are like this, they want to see women, and all women are like that they want to be notices.
3.) There's nothing to worry this is normal.
2006-09-03 03:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I've yet to meet a man that doesn't check out other women. But their is such a thing as called respecting his partner. If he is goggling or making comments to these women then that's uncalled for. Looking and admiring is something that you could never control. Women now days are very outwardly sexual and some of their form of dress attire less nothing to the imagination. I would speak to him and tell him how much you love him, but you would appreciate it very much if he respected you, by not drooling over other women when you are around. That's just commen sense and you deserve that kind of respect. If you love someone, you don't want to intentionally hurt their feelings or irritate them, so hubby please keep yourself in check. Hurts like these can turn into bigger issues later down in your married life if you don't work on getting them under control now. And speaking honestly about your discomforts should be spoken to each other and heard with the utmost respect and love that you have for one another. Good luck, I wish you well... you've only just begun. Get these kind of things ironed out early in your marriage before they grow roots and smoother you.
2006-09-03 04:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by â?¥kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men like to look at other women. My husband does that too. But I dont think he's obsessed with it. When he sees a hot one passing by he looks. It's natural. I know It's annoying. I agree, I feel the same way like you do. I get jelous sometimes. But it's their nature. Maybe you should tell him how you feel. He might understand. I've told mine and he doesn't do it much. But when I'm not around I honestly don't know if he looks or not.
2006-09-03 03:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by F D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend with the same problem and she has found a solution. Whenever he says this say Ok I'll go talk to her for you. She then walks up to this girl and will tell her what her husband has said. of Course he gets so embarrassed and the girl is totally turned off. It has stopped this behavior in him!!
2006-09-03 03:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,first thing lady, which you have no chioce but to accept that,men are the way they are and this is the way they are,no one can change it,its in there gene to see those things in woman 1st rather than anything else...its not neccessary that hey look at it lustfully of so but thats how they are made,and all men do they,if anyone denies this is not a man,take it from me....and its harmless you are lucky that you have such a great understanding with him that he shares the same with you...just dont nag him on this,he will never change n u'll just be bothering yourself,without any reason...
about your figure,just be happy cos your husband loves you!!
2006-09-03 03:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does too. You know what I look at other men and its like looking at good paintings. Look but do not touch and to much trouble to take home. I look at women to to see how I compare. Most women my age are not in as good a shape. Most men my husbands age are not in as good a shape either. I think its normal to look but not to google over or salivate over. When I worked I worked with a lot of men and looked, only to think I had better at home.
2006-09-03 03:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't look I would think he was dead. Men Look so don't Women.
I know I look and my wife knows I look. Dam she sometimes tells me to look.
Every time I have ever seen a pretty woman and looked I have always started thinking of my wife and how I love her.
Looking is fine. Touching is not.
Saying. Lookie but no touchie
2006-09-03 03:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't worry about it, but you are married. He obviously doesn't deserve you if he can't appreciate you and has to look at other women.
2006-09-03 03:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to tell him to stop it once and for all. No other discussion needed, ...........just stop doing it.
2006-09-03 15:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-03 03:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by SG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋