After Marriage Survey?

Question

1. does intimacy stop?
2. is it the same in the relationship?
3. what is your worst petpeve about him?
4. how do you handle the petpeve?
5. are you still in the sexual mood as before marriage?

any other details you like to say...
comments ect.

Answer 1

first off I am him, and I have been married three times and am 53 years of age .my first two marriages I was not with either wife long enough as I was in the navy and away too much, but mt present wife and I have been married 15 years and I find that I am not as sexually active as I should be which is totally unfair to my wife, but i also work nights 7 days a week to try to make ends meet. I would not say that intimacy stops, but that complacency takes over.

Answer 2

1- Does intimacy stop?
*Well....it doesn't stop, just decreases. Sometimes it can stop. My DH and I went through a rough spot and there was no intimacy for a really long time. But we were able to work through it and found each other again.

2- Is it the same in the relationship?
*You're asking if intimacy is the same? It gets better and more intense with time.

3- Petpeeve
*Theres a couple of petpeeves. My biggest one is his lack of Aim in the Bathroom.

4- Handling the petpeeve.
*I used to get really pissed. I made up a sign on the computer and hung it in front of the toilet at eye level so he would be sure to read it and do something about it. Unfortunately he is either blind or he can't read. (joke! LOL) So now, I don't even bother getting upset because I know it doesn't do any good. I just make sure I make it to the bathroom before I really have to go, to give myself time to clean the comode. ;-)

5- Still in the sexual mood as before marriage.
*Yeah.

Answer 3

1. does intimacy stop?
No, It get better and better as time goes by.

2. is it the same in the relationship?
We understand eachother more and once the honeymoon period was over we stoppedspending as much time just with eachother, but that is ok because we both have to have space and time with our friends.

3. what is your worst petpeve about him?
He smokes so I have Ash trays all over my house. He never puts the towel on the towel rack the right way so when I get out of the shower I have to dry of with a wet towel.

4. how do you handle the petpeve?
I complain about it, but only to myself and then I'll joke with him about it, hoping he'll get the hint.

5. are you still in the sexual mood as before marriage?
I was a virgin before I was married so I was just nervous about it. But Now we have a very active sex life.

Age 20, married two years to my wonderful husband.

Answer 4

1. No the intamacy doesnt stop, It becomes deeper and more meaningful
2. It isnt the same as the first lusty time jitters that sends fire works off, but it is still amaizing
3. There are lots of things that I think "JUST STOP IT!!" but I love those things too. I am just so taken by him
4. I yell at him to "JUST STOP IT!!"
5. No I think it is like a roller coaster, no one tells you that after marriage you will hit highs and lows. One month it can be incredible, intense and I am beyond in love, The next month maybe blah and normal and I could care less about sex, Then there are times that I just cant stand him but always and forever I love him everyday. I always know that the magic is there and the times that he makes my toes curl will be back soon enough.

As long as you both dont get too relaxed and always try as hard as you did when you first were together, you will always have toe curling sex!!!

Answer 5

1. The frequency slows down, the level of intimacy increases.
2. No, people change.
3. He leaves his dirty underwear laying around.
4. I ignore it as long as it stays on his side of the bed. If it doesn't, I toss it over there.
5. No. Do I still think he's a hottie after 20 years? YES.

Answer 6

1.it slows down, especially after you have kids.
2.it's never the same because as the years go buy, you both change.
3.leaves his socks in the living room or on the couch.
4.i just breathe deeply and put them away.
5.no. kids change everything.

people tend to think you are supposed to be happy ALL the time once you get married, but life doesn't work that way. you will go through cycles. but the happy times should out weigh the bad times. you should be friends and you should be able to tell each other everything. secrets destroy relationships. lies destroy relationships. be honest with yourself and with your spouse and you should be able to work through anything.