you may have thought they were a b***h/b*****d and they turned out to be,an okay person,what did you do,make it up to them or let it slide and just try to be nice fromthen on?
2006-09-03 03:35:42 · 17 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you should try to apologize if you were rude to them. if you didn't actually do anything or say anything bad then just go forth and be nice from now on.
we all do it, sometimes people come across all wrong or we are misinterpreting something...a lot of people have quirky senses of humor and it takes time to figure that out.
plus we all have our bad days.
cut yourself some slack and buy'em a coffee:)
2006-09-03 03:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! I've thought, "What a stupid b****" more times than I can count, and then the person has turned out to be quite nice. Usually, the thing is that I don't show my dislike too strongly at the beginning, so I don't have too much to make up for, and a formal apology is not required. If I have been rude, then I feel that I do need to make a formal apology--"I'm sorry that I was rude to you at X time; I was having a bad day" or something like that.
The best way is never to be rude! Even if you think someone is awful, just withdraw from them. Don't do anything you'll have to apologize for later if it turns out you've misjudged.
2006-09-03 04:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by changnoieh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Someone told me the other day I was mad at the world, just because I was having a bad day. I'm an ok person. Unfortunatly, I too have misjudged people. Guess that's because I am human.
2006-09-03 03:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by shanney fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many times have misjudged. because i only i think bad about them then there is no harm and so i just become nice later when i find out i was wrong
2006-09-03 03:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by delmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah i completely misjudged this one lady in my sophomore twelve months of highschool. she grew to become into caught up and conceited and had an air approximately her that she grew to become into greater clever than each and every person. in case you tried to talk together with her she might act such as you weren't rather worth her time or so it looked then we've been given thrown at the same time for an english undertaking and a few Shakespeare play and that i attempted to artwork on it together with her and we've been given into this enormous combat. some punches have been thrown and we had to do a mediation cuz the instructor would not substitute the pairing. the counselor had to leave the room for an emergency of a few variety as quickly as she left the room i began out lower back and he or she began to cry and that i grew to become into so annoyed i mentioned f****** tell me what the f*** is going on and that i threw a chair (it grew to become into so extreme using fact i in no way have been given indignant like this in the previous, actually i in no way ever have been given mad) so she breaks down and tells me that her mum and dad the two died and her brother would not refer to her and her aunt and uncle have been abusive and he or she did not desire acquaintances using fact she did not desire every physique to get entangled and make concerns worse . after some months i and my older sister have been in a position to get her out and living with considered one of my different acquaintances. so for sure i completely misjudged her using fact after she grew to become into faraway from the abode we grew to develop into sturdy acquaintances and that i'm able to easily say that she is between the sweetest nicest maximum attractive human beings I even have ever met
2016-10-01 06:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never but i have been on the receiving end. first impressions and all that, so long as one remembers first impressions work both ways, and the one you may have thought was a what ever. May be left with the impression you definitely are what you thought them to be
2006-09-03 08:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. so hold back your first judgement next time and give the guy the benefit of the doubt.
just do what you normally do with the guy. and make up for your mistake by being nice to him im the most subtle way bit by bit. you should be careful and tactful of what you say to him in your everyday conversation with him throughout this reconciliation period. hopefully his subconcious gets the vibes and he will be willing to forgive you and be nice to you again
2006-09-03 03:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by listlessbutdiligent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when I've misjudged people it has been the other way around, but when it wasn't I have done both.
2006-09-03 03:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by death_to_spies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always believed that Ive never been in or ever will be in the position to judge anyone but that's just me.
2006-09-03 03:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by MusicLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not in my nature to say "sorry", so generally I just tried to be nice from that moment on.
2006-09-03 06:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋