hi im a 14 year old female. i have a prob. my prob is that im relli shy! i dnt lyk it n i dnt wnt 2 b shy however i cnt help it wen im round certain ppl i jus go all quiet dus any1 hav any advice or tips on how 2 make me more confident?????plz help xxxx
2006-09-03 03:34:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
same here. start a conversation like 'how was your day' and ask questions, don't give one word answers and it's okay to interrupt sometimes lol.
2006-09-03 03:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy i get a headache trying to read you youngsters spelling... Listen, just remember that nobody is better than you. You are important and have thoughts and feelings that others will care about. Relax, take a deep breath, and break outta that shell! (just don't swing the other way and become obnoxious, lol). You know, taking a sincere intrest in how people feel and what they are thinking about should give you plenty of questions and comments to make. good luck hun.
2006-09-03 03:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell yourself in those situations that everyone isn't staring at you and judging you, they are all much more concerned with themselves and how they are coming across to you and others! It's easy to feel like a fish in a goldfish bowl and that people might ridicule you if you open your mouth, but usually everyone else is too busy worrying about their own image to be too concerned with yours.
2006-09-04 01:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by drblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to join a drama group? may sound silly but withput your friends around you can be whoever you want to be! drama will help bring the inner you out. as like when siblings the youngest child is always spoken for, same with noisy mates, you just blent into the background. go for it . what do u have to loose.
2006-09-03 03:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be really shy when i was younger too, and i used to really clam up with some people until i realised the people who were'nt speaking to me were shy people too.
I could talk to the confident people because there was never awkward silences, watch the confident people and try to learn by their example
good luck :)
2006-09-05 23:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by lota1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by writing proper English, then someone might give you some advice.
2006-09-03 03:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try team sports. it worked for me. Keep your chin up and good luck! x
2006-09-06 21:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! i am just like you but i am confident when my friends are with me.. but in your case, i think you just need to ignore them like they are not around you(juz an advce bec. that's wat i do wenever i was alone) so that you can be confident with yourself.
2006-09-03 03:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by cool_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, what you need first of all, is an education,...jesus girl !!! you dont know how to spell.
2006-09-03 03:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by cassey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me an asshole. if you can do that you've taken your first step
2006-09-03 03:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by nuclear farter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋