im talking abt a lesbian...she came over to me when i was having my lunch in a mall....
and she started asking me whether i wud like to do blah blah things with her...yuck !...
i told her im straight...and blah blah...but now...shez not leavin my a$s$...lol..i mean shez callin me every now and then..etc etc...
how can i avoid her ??
2006-09-03 03:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well if she met u randomly in the mall, and yet she's calling you every now and then, maybe you need to think to yourself, why you gave your number to her if you didn't like what she was saying?
Wouldn't you just tell her you're straight and get up and leave the mall?
The next time she calls you, tell her you're not interested. Simple as that. Don't say 'lets be friends' cos that means, 'Hang around me long enough until I submit to your requests, under the constant pressure.'
2006-09-03 03:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to first ask yourself why you gave some girl in a mall your number... Perhaps you like the attention? Maybe deep down you are curious about this lifestyle? Seriously, think it over.
BUT if this is someone who really needs to be given the ol' boot, then do it in a nice way. Let her know that you are flattered but she is making you feel uncomfortable and you are not interested in a relationship with her. Don't insult her though.
2006-09-03 10:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were not interested you would not have given her your phone number, nor would you continue the conversations. Sounds like you may be curious, just not THAT curious. Tell her (politely) you are not interested in anything more than a friendship. Leave it at that and stop entertaining her desires. If you let someone talk about sexual things without giving them an absolute "no", they take it as a "maybe".
2006-09-03 10:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously talking to her does no good. This is a spiritual attack launched against you by the devil. the last thing that you want to do is strike up any kind of a relationship with her. Invoke the power of Jesus Christ through prayer. If she confronts you in person again, then say to her: "In the name of Jesus be gone! I bind you you devil in the name and by the blood of Jesus!" The devil cannot stand the name of Jesus. Hopefully, she will leave and never bother you again. When she calls you on the phone, try the same tactic. God bless you. In the name of Jess and by his blood may you be victorious over this attack.
2006-09-03 10:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't avoid her...
Be "straight" with her... Handle her just like you would a GUY who was interested in you... that you are not interested in.
It is... after all the same thing.
Say look Leslie (hehehe)... I have no interest in going there nor hear about YOU wanting to go there... and if you persist, I'm out of here. Plain and Simple.
You have a right NOT to be hit on... and she has the right to SHUT UP... or have you go elsewhere.
Be secure with your choices... *IF* you aren't secretly digging it.
And if you are... that's cool... just be HONEST with yourself.
2006-09-03 10:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blunt and harsh if necessary, tell her you don't like the attention and it is time she moved on. You shouldn't have to dodge people, unless you are not able to tell people Sh*t they need to hear then you should hide. But the world will work better when everyone communicates.
2006-09-03 10:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by spider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her flat out. If she phones don't answer. If she comes to your home don't open the door. She will get the message sooner or later. Remember the more attention you are going to give back to her the more she is going to demand it.
2006-09-03 10:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by tolquit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, wtf did you give her your phone number in the first place?
But anyway, it sounds like this idiot needs to get a clue you're not playing, or she needs to be on your block list. If you don't/can't block her calls, just tell her no, clearly, and keep the calls to the minimum, just as you would with a guy you don't want to be around. Same basic rules apply.
2006-09-03 10:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's such a thing a stalking laws,explain to her if she doesn't leave you alone,you will alert the police
2006-09-03 10:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just like you would invent all the excuses and devices to put of a guy when you do not want him and he still insists
2006-09-03 10:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Practical 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋