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I had unprotected sex in a very safe zone, whihc is one was a day before my period came and the other one is a weak later just after my period, and now my period is late by 4 days? I know I can buy the test and do it but very scared if i am.... so what sort of metiod shall I use other than abortion. Like workouts or sometig to teminate the pregnancy?

2006-09-03 02:12:38 · 27 answers · asked by vero 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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dont know are you....you sound like a slut to me...just dont end up like the other sluts around the world on Maury show wondering who their babys daddy is

2006-09-04 10:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Needless worrying is not going to help you. Your period is probably late due to stress. If you are not ready for the consequences of unprotected sex, either use protection or do not have sex until you are at an age where you can deal with it. In the mean time purchase a test kit, it is better to face your fear so you can deal with it, than let the matter deal with you. Personally though, I am against abortion by whatever method but that is your decision to make. If you make the wrong choice you can end up hurting yourself.

2006-09-03 10:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0 0

i would get a test and then you would no but if you are pregnant do you really think you could teminate the pregnancy's there are lots of people you can talk to about these things . i have a we baby boy and when i found out i was pregnant i talked about having an abortion but in the end i could not do it and now i have a lovely little boy who i would not be with out so if you are pregnant don't rush into anything and talk to some one a close friend so family and if not them her is a number you can phone 08707773060 they helped me alot all the best and i hope everything works out

2006-09-03 09:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ok,i am going to break this question down into parts and answer each part seperately.First off,let me first correct you on something there is no "safe zone".Reguardless of what people tell you,anytime you have unprotected sex you take the chance of possibly getting pregnant.It does not matter how far or how near your period is,if you have unprotected sex there is that chance.As a matter of fact,anytime you have sex at all you risk getting pregnant.It may be a small chance but it is there.Secondly,If your period is late,you need to go and purchase a home pregnancy test.Although,you can purchase a test i would suggest you go to your obgyn,their tests are taken by blood test and are more accurate by far.You should definately not have an abortion(in my opinion,as i cannot tell you what to do).I also would not attempt to terminate the pregnancy.I dont mean to be rude or sound so harsh but you need to take responsiblity for this child.You need to carry this child,and you need to calm down.You have two options,i dont believe in abortion.You can A.) carry this baby to term.You sound young and this question is in the adolescent catagory so i am guessing you are young.It will be hard,but with family support you can do this.They may be angry at first but they need to know.You need to sit down and speak to your parents about this situation.Together you can make a decision.Although,they will be shocked at first and more so disappointed they will come around.It is not impossible for you to keep this child many women reguardless of age do it every day and still go to school,keep up with jobs etc.It isnt an easy task but you can do it so take that option into consideration. Options B.) You can put this child up for adoption.You can still continue to be in the babies life through something that they call an Open adoption.The family keeps in touch with you by picture,email,phone,weekly visits in some situations and other methods.This would allow you to continue to be in the babies life and you wouldnt be a mystery to it once it grows older.You will be in its life and it will know who you are.I urge you to take these options into consideration and not consider abortion as an option.You made this child (if you are pregnant) and you need to take responsiblity.Good luck.

2006-09-03 12:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0 1

go buy a test...u gotta know...as far as teminateing the pregnancy....i could go all day on this...i am really aginst abortion of any kind..even the morning after pill...it is not that babies fault that the parents made a dumb choice to have unprotected sex...but it is alive...if u are seriously thinking about not wanting the baby..atleast think about adoption..there are alot of people out there who cant have kids...who have tried and tried but cant...if u dont wants this little miracle growing inside of u at least try to help one of them...its ur decision..i know..but think about the long run... my sister had a baby..she is one now...but our friend is now pregnant...she didnt want to have the baby because she wasnt ready...she wanted to mess are some more because she was still only 17...she wanted to live before she had to be a mom...well...she was gonna give it up for adoption...and my sister would be talking about her baby...how she just got her first tooth...learned to walk..sat up buy herself...and how she would never know about her babies first anything...first step..first birthday..first crush..first heartbreak..anythihng...she would never be there to help her go through this...well it got her thinking and she said she realized how selfish she was being...and now in 1 month she is gonna have this baby...and she is keeping it....this is what i mean think about long term...is a quick desicion gonna be better for everyone in the long run???if u do find out u are pregnant and if u honestly dont thnk u can be a mother please dont go the abortion route...there is someone out there who will love your baby...like i said it isnt the babys fault that he/she was created..but they were...Best of luck with whatever u decide...

2006-09-03 09:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla E 2 · 1 0

Sweetheart you may not be pregnant your periods maybe late due to stress of you worrying but if you are their is no sort of method that you could use other than abortion to terminate the pregnancy I know you may well be scared but you need to speak to someone you must have someone you feel comfortable with and trust but first find out if you are pregnant get that test done then proceed from their.

2006-09-03 09:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by jaci 2 · 0 0

First of all there is no SAFE ZONE I don 't understand WHY would you have unprotected sex do you not think of all the consequence's like herpes,and other std's not to mention AIDS.I donot know how old you are but you have to tell your parents trust in them their the ones who will be there for you and help you out educate yourself about what abortion really is, it is murder but a lot of people don't know that.I have seen the pictures of their tiny little bodies is inhumen..so talk to your parents let them know what's going on so they can take you to your doctor.

2006-09-03 14:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by why 1 · 0 0

First of all there is NO SAFE ZONE when having sex. If you do not want any babies then you should NOT have sex or use birth control. There is no way to terminate the pregnancy, it is something you have to deal with since you had sex knowing that you can become pregnant. Babies are not trash. Sex is for adults and if you want to have sex then you need to handle the outcome from sex like one otherwise stop having sex.

2006-09-03 09:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0 1

you could be pregnant there is no safe zone in having sex how old are you anyways my best friend was 17 when she had her son yea it was hard but never no reason to try to terminate a pregnancy thats murder rather u think it or not. Im not trying to be a ***** but if u are pregnant thats ur flesh and blood u will be killing and its not as bad as it may seem to have a kid. My advice for u if ur not pregnant is practice safe sex if u dont want a kid dont murder an innocent baby for a mistake u made!

2006-09-03 12:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

i agree with the chick above a couple of answers.
WHERE IS THE SEX EDUCATION IN THIS COUNTRY?!

your stupid you know that. "Like workouts or sometig to teminate the pregnancy?" WTF!? if you dont want to be pregnat then A.WHY DID YOU HAVE SEX!? and B.NONTHELESS UNPROTECTED SEX!? hahah. wow. if you are put the kid up for adoption. and THINK about abortion first, your KILLING a defensless LIVING BEING, that just wants love. what if YOU were aborted by YOUR mother!? MANSLAUGHTER is all i say it is. for all you care [which it doesnt look like it] that baby could be a doctor that cures cancer! or maybe even the PRESIDENT! think about it. eriously. THINK ABOUT IT!

2006-09-03 11:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by me. 2 · 1 1

There is NO SAFE ZONE in which to have unprotected sex. You can get pregnant any old time.

You need to go to a clinic and talk to them about your options if you are pregnant. No there is no workouts or anything like that to terminate a pregnancy.


WHERE IS THE SEX EDUCATION IN THIS COUNTRY!!!

2006-09-03 09:15:48 · answer #11 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 3 0

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