2006-09-03 01:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You're lucky, usually it is the other way around. He screws you and pronto before you feel like coming he's gone and leaves you high and dry and frustrated.
Enjoy it, he will make it soon enough.
2006-09-03 02:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by winterspring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of when I started having sex a while back.... Bear with me, it's a long story!
I've had a few "one-night-stands" and the like where I'd have sex with girls, but never "got off". I blamed stressful encounters, too much drinking, and fatigue. I didn't pay it any mind.
Then I started seeing someone regularly (as in a steady girlfriend) and of course, we would have sex on a regular basis too. At this point, I wasn't reaching orgasm either no matter what she did. We would have sex 2 or 3 times a day (whenever possible), she would give me BJs and HJs, but I was never able to reach that point.
Essentially it took at least one whole month before I could finally climax with her. From that point on, it was never an issue with us, ever again!
Basically what happened was simple; I had trust issues.... Not towards my girlfriend but rather trouble "letting go", allowing myself to lose control and whatnot. It wasn't conscious at all, but since that first time I had an orgasm with my partner, it seems something went "off" (or "on"!) in my mind and from that moment, it was never an issue anymore.
It is possible your man has something similar preventing him from fully letting himself go. But it is also possible he has something else working "against" him, such as a sensitivity problem for example.
I would suggest you talk ti him about it. Not in a confrontational way, but rather inquiring about "why" and "maybe" and "what is" about the problem. Maybe he is holding a piece of information which could proove vital in revitalizing your sex life.
If that doesn't help or if some some odd reason he dismisses what you may offer him as a suggestion, maybe it is a medication problem. Has he had such issues prior to your relationship? In extreme cases it could be medical so perhaps a visit to the doctor for consultation would be a good idea.
Finally, alot of guys out there will probably offer this answer, which sounds incredibly crude but in a twisted way, could work at breaking that "barrier" which prevents him from reaching orgasm: Get your jaw in shape and go down on him like you've never did, and don't come back up until HE starts gasping for air!
Sorry for the crudeness, but like I said, it just might be the extra little "thing" he needed to finally allow his orgasms to manifest with you!
Cheers, hope this has helped!
2006-09-03 12:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he should see a doctor. He could have a low sperm count which might be y he doesn't have an orgasm. Maybe you could cut down to two days a week. I know that would be hard to to. No pun intended.
2006-09-03 12:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in black stockings and suspender belt only, give him a hand job and let him come in your mouth.
2006-09-03 09:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important? He bangs you four times a week? Don't worry, be happy.
2006-09-03 08:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of such a dilema!
2006-09-03 08:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky for u mine only twice a month
2006-09-03 11:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he on any medication? Paxil is one that will delay, if not prohibit, an orgasm.
2006-09-03 09:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by smiley0_1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick your finger in his bottom......
No really, its the most sensitive part, of the mans body.......
2006-09-03 09:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋