do u think it is a relation? if it is, then why it needs signatures to start and to end??? 1: is it unbreakable? 2: it has terms and conditions? 3:any gurente from any memeber to countinue till death??? 4: any guarente how long it can be?? All these things , work for a buisiness partnership , not for a relation ,
2006-09-03 01:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well...marriage is a relationship, but there are a lot of legal arrangements made during a marriage. Insurance coverages, mortgages, bank accounts, etc. The marriage and family can be beautiful, but the legal business of sharing households...not so much. Marriage can be life long, but people get caught up in the business. You have to work on both the business and the relationship. A lot of compromise in the relationship and a lot of straight up agreement in the business end. There are no guarantees for anything. Divorce is very sad, but it happens.
2006-09-03 01:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking is wrong. Marriage is of course an agreement. When in the Mandap, we take seven sacred vows to better the lives of not only spouses but also it is implied that both the families would live like one. But some times our expectations or conduct go awry. At such times, we are first annoyed and if both the parties do not mend their ways, then both the spouses part their ways but that should be the last resort always, not the first one.
About dividing of things, when the girl leaves her parents home forever to live with the boy. She also leaves behind everything. Also while living together, both contribute to the home and household things. Now if both spouses part their ways, and if both won't divide things and other items, how will they survive without needy material things, which are necessary for a life to run. Both need support. While mostly it is the girl/woman who leaves the house of husband then she would definitely need many things of her own, which she brought with her at the time of wedding from her parents' home. And many more things which she might have got while living in the house of her hubby and she needs ... SO IT HAS TO BE THE SITUATION. WE CAN NOT AVOID THIS ....
2006-09-06 04:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relation has its own limitations. Once it broken that may be the end of relation. So there is no meaning by keeping their things somewhere....... Every existence requires proof of living otherwise nobody will recognise the existance.1.All God made is unbreakable.....whatever human created is breakable and makable.2.Without terms and conditions no one can live organised, some system must be followed in routine life. Not required it should be written on paper.....good understanding also workable.3.How someone can give guarantee of his life........4.Some sort of surety with determination can be given to maintain the relation- again not required over on paper, it can be workable with good understanding.
Work for a business partnership need legal involvement and required evidences till its end. Every action must be recorded over on paper.....But in relation once tied with other no paper work required for every action. Only required sound understanding...........
2006-09-06 19:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many people, you are taking parts of two different things and mixing it up a bit. Marriage, from a religious sense (as far as I can tell) is the bonbding of two people, as a relationship, that lasts until death.
However, marriage from a legal standpoint, is a governmental organization category that helps determine taxes and other things. Legal things tend to require signatures to make them legal and they tend to appear more like a business partnership than anything with actual feeling. If you want to be in a marriage relationship AND share the secular benefits, then you need to be both married according to your beliefs AND also legally bonded.
2006-09-03 01:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by steele_feher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said that marriage is no agreement,it is definitely a legal,social,emotional contract formed between two persons & their families. Just as we observe certain rules during marriage, even during a divorce, (both should try to avoid this) but if it has to be, then sharing or splitting of things should be carried out peacefully by both.
2006-09-04 11:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by krishna p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a relationship becos,it starts off as a feeling rather than an agreement....ya we do have to sign and stuff to be married but as humans we tend to largely follow if there are rules laid out that is why we have a society and social obligations...if we didnt have to sign then we would be like animals straying for simplets of causes that can be repaired.so signing is for those people who need to be controlled rather than they control them selves....
2006-09-03 03:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the couple decided to part what is the use of keeping the materials?
2006-09-03 03:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by chieftrafficwarden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship doesnt have to be sexual, a relationship can be business. you arent all that bright are you.
2006-09-03 01:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋