what is love??? can we define love???

Answer 1

is this educational?

Answer 2

can you define anything truely human? that doesnt give you an answer but, our nature itself requires something beyond anything definable to be truely explained. in that long post above with all the differentiations of love I think love is that which is unconditional and anything else is a secondary emotion that doesnt quite qualify. but love is one that can not be mistaken for anything else.

Answer 3

such difficult questions to answer , you can go through life and never find the answers , sometimes it can stare you in the face , but you do not understand it . hope is probably the best combatant to find and define love , for surely there is life there is hope and in turn , will find love .

Answer 4

Love doesnt have a definition, yes it does in the dictionary but that doesnt mean a thing. U cant describe love. Evryone shows love differently.

Answer 5

It's when someone (or something) makes you thoroughly happy. Also, "love means never having to say your sorry." (from "Love Story.")

Answer 6

baybe love is wen u luv some1 we can always define luv email me baybe

Answer 7

yes we can..but it seems that we are blinded by it..and it turns out to be lust.people are not contented and they oversee the meaning of love.

Answer 8

Lust or die together in old age!

Answer 9

Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person.

The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages (though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry). Others maintain that love really exists, is not an abstraction, but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another. Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life. Others still, maintain that "Love is God".
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* 1 Overview
* 2 Types
* 3 Scientific views
o 3.1 Chemical Love
* 4 Cultural views
* 5 Religious views
* 6 Definitional issues
* 7 See also
* 8 Notes
* 9 References
* 10 External links

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Overview

Love has several different meanings in the English language, from something that gives a little pleasure to something for which one would die. And in contrast to the definition above, frequently people use the verb "love" to indicate want or desire for themselves as opposed to for another. For example: "I love that lamp" does not refer to desiring wellness for the lamp, but rather to the desire for the lamp. The word also frequently indicates elevated appreciation or admiration: "I love that artist," an individual might state.

Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, and love for the respect of others. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain. Many believe, as stated originally by Virgil, that "Love conquers all", or as stated by The Beatles, "All you need is love". Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of 'absolute value', as opposed to relative value.
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Types

* Agape - the term was used by the early Christians (Greek to be specific, as the word is of Greek origin) to refer to the special love for God and God's love for humanity
* Courtly love – a late medieval conventionalized code prescribing certain conduct and emotions for ladies and their lovers
* Erotic love (eros) – affection characterized by sexual desires
* Familial love – affection brokered through kinship connections, intertwined with concepts of attachment and bonding
* Free love – sexual relations according to choice and unrestricted by marriage
* Philia - used in the New Testament, philia is a human response to something that is found to be delightful. Also known as "brotherly love"
* Platonic love – a close relationship in which sexual desire is non-existent or has been suppressed or sublimated
* Puppy love – romantic affection that is not "mature" or not "true." The term is often used with negative connotations, insinuating that love between youngsters is less genuine or valuable
* Religious love – devotion to one's deity or theology
* Romantic love – affection characterized by a mix of emotional intimacy and sexual desire
* True love – love without condition, motive or attachment. Loving someone just because they are themselves, not their actions or beliefs in particular. Also referred to as unconditional love.
* Unrequited love – affection and desire not reciprocated or returned
* Lust-love - affection characterized by lust, caring about the desired one for a short amount of time, in other words, semi-true love
* Instantaneous love - Love that occours the instant that one person comes in contact with another and feels a deep connection or attraction to the other. Also known as "love at first sight" and refered to commonly in many fairy tales and folk lore and literature.
* Sacrificial love - the act of sacrificing one's life, or something of great importance, solely on the basis of love.

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Scientific views

Main article: Love (scientific views)

Throughout history, predominantly, philosophy and religion have speculated the most into the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. Recently, however, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have begun to take centre stage in discussion as to the nature and function of love.

Biological models of sex tend to see it as a mammalian drive, just like hunger or thirst. Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg created his Triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Intimacy is a form where two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives. Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment on the other hand is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever. The last and most common form of love is simply sex, or passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. This led researchers such as Yela to further refine the model by separating Passion into two independents components: Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion.
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Chemical Love

Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that a consistent number of chemicals are present in the brain when people testify to feeling love. These chemicals include; Testosterone, Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin. More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone and Oestrogen are present during the lustful phase of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Seretonin are more commonly found during the attraction phase of a relationship. Oxytocin, and Vasopressin seemed to be more closley linked to long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.
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Cultural views

Main article: Love (cultural views)

Although there exist numerous cross-cultural unified similarities as to the nature and definition of love, as in there being a thread of commitment, tenderness, and passion common to all human existence, there are differences. For example, in India, with arranged marriages commonplace, it is believed that love is not a necessary ingredient in the initial stages of marriage – it is something that can be created during the marriage; whereas in Western culture, by comparison, love is seen as a necessary prerequisite to marriage.
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Religious views

Main article: Love (religious views)

Love in early religions was a mixture of ecstatic devotion and ritualised obligation to idealised natural forces (pagan polytheism). Later religions shifted emphasis towards single abstractly-oriented objects like God, law, church and state (formalised monotheism).

A third view, pantheism, recognises a state or truth distinct from (and often antagonistic to) the idea that there is a difference between the worshipping subject and the worshipped object. Love is reality, of which we, moving through time, imperfectly interprete ourselves as an isolated part.

The Bible speaks of love as a set of attitudes and actions that are far broader than the concept of love as an emotional attachment. Love is seen as a set of behaviours that humankind is encouraged to act out. One is encouraged not just to love one's partner, or even one's friends but also to love one's enemies.

The Bible describes this type of active love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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Definitional issues

Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.[1] In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favoured definitions of love include the words:[2]

1. life - someone or something for which you would give your life.
2. care - someone or something about which you care more than yourself.

In common use, care refers to a mental or emotional state of predisposition in which one has an interest or concern for someone or something. To care for someone, may also refer to a disquieted state of mixed uncertainty, apprehension, and responsibility; or a cause for such anxiety. Caring for an object, such as a house, refers to a state of attendant maintenance; or may also refer to a state of charge or supervision, as in under a doctor’s care.

3. friendship - favoured interpersonal associations or relationships.
4. union - dissolution of loving subject into loved object; a hyper-real state of creative generosity.
5. family - people related via common ancestry.
6. bond - the inner connection when another person is a part of your identity.

Thomas Jay Oord defines love as acting intentionally, in sympathetic response to others (including God), to promote overall well-being. Oord means for his definition to be adequate for religion, philosophy, and the sciences.
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See also

* Affectional orientation
* Altruism
* Aspects of love
o Admiration
o Attachment
o Care
o Desire to procreate
o Lust
o Respect
* Beauty
* Charisma
* Courtship
* Crush
* Dating
* Emotion



* Erotic love
* Erotomania
* Erotophobia
* Falling in love
* Flirting
* Greek words for love
* Human bonding
* Intimate relationship
* Limerence
* Love at first sight
* Love-hate relationships
* Love letter
* Love-shyness
* Love sickness
* Lust
* Marriage



* Metta
* Personal commitment
* Personal relationship
* Persuasion
* Philia
o List of philias
* Physical attractiveness
* Platonic love
* Polyamory
* Romance novels
* Romanticism
* Romantic love
* Seduction
* Seduction Community
* Sex
* Triangular theory of love

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