I had just dumped my boyfriend and a guy i had just meet took me out in a car, treated me like royalty and then kissed me! i then got with the guy i dumped again but do you think i was cheating and should i tell my boyfriend what happened, and has this ever happened to you?
2006-09-03 01:12:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, there's nothing wrong with dating around until you find the right guy. If you call it off with someone, you're free to get with someone else.
2006-09-03 01:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no it's not really cheating, but it is kind of unfair to your boyfriend. He's going to sit around and wonder when the next time you are going to dump him for an evening with another guy and then come crawling back. Either stick with him or don't, but be fair.
2006-09-03 08:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a cheat, how could you be cheating on a guy you aren't with anymore?
If I were you though, I'd tell your bf about the other guy, because he's bound to find out.
You did nothing wrong, so don't let him make you feel guilty because he can't handle it.
Be honest with him, so he can't say you were hiding things from him, and don't take any bs if he goes off on one...
2006-09-03 10:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by lilyangele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just move a little slower with the guys . I think you are ok , but you must feel guilty or you would not have been concerned . When it comes down to it I guess it depends what your opinion in you heart is ! Just be careful sweetie, you may either get hurt or hurt someone else !
2006-09-03 08:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were not together at the time, it was not cheating. Being confused about who/what you want is not uncommon. Yes, I would tell your boyfriend, though. He may find out later, anyway, and it is better he hear it from you. This way, you can tell him that it didn't mean anything.
2006-09-03 08:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shaken Not Stirred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like if your boyfriend knew he was dumped before you went out with this guy, then it was not exactly a cheat, keep your mouth shut.
2006-09-03 08:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only cheating when your married. Girl "friends" Boy "friends"
2006-09-03 08:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-03 08:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You all were on a break. It's not considered cheating to me.
2006-09-03 08:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm i think its kind of cheat but not 100% as at that time you two were not together..all depend how do you feel about it..if you really don't feel happy about it tell to your bf about it.
2006-09-03 08:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by tenderpinklady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋