I have been married for 3 years but my in laws are not corporative at all. They always oppose me. My wfie always supports me and my In Laws regret her also. We dont know the reason. When i go to ask them that why are you doing this. They just ignores me and insults me.What should i do?
2006-09-03 00:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by James Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cut them out of your life
2006-09-03 01:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will have to ignore them for the most part, they have there life and you and your wife have yours. The saying goes you can't please all the people all the time. There must be something that you done to rub them the wrong way and they are the kind of people that doesn't let it go. If you are determined to connect with them then take a look at yourself, how do you treat your wife in front of them?Have you ever treated her bad in front of them? How do you treat them? Just questions like this will help you find the problem if it exist on your end. Good luck.
2006-09-03 03:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking them. What are they opposing? Its your life and your marriage. Start your own family and stop asking them for anything. They are pushing you aways so stay away. I am sure that if you stop talking to them as much as you do then they will have change of heart.
2006-09-03 01:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look if all marriage give this """""" IN LAWS"""" a matter .. Probably theres nothing called i laws at all they are all the same..
just do the thing you knew that is right and ignore them...other wise they ruin your marriage...good luck
2006-09-03 01:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by lolipop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes In-laws are hard to deal with come right out and ask them whats the problem and maybe you all can sit down and talk it all out Good luck
2006-09-03 01:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, YOU shouldn't do anything. They are making your wife choose between them and you...thing is, she's going to choose you. SHE has to tell them that until they can treat you more respectfully, the two of you won't be visiting or talking to them.
2006-09-03 01:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore them. You're wife doesn't have a problem supporting you and ignoring them and neither should you.
2006-09-03 01:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore them and live your own life. Keep them at a distance and they will not be able to be uncooperative.
2006-09-03 01:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know they're your wife's parents but u don't necessarily have to deal with them. You married your wife, not your inlaws and therefore u can show them respect but don't necessarily have to like them or interact with them.
2006-09-03 01:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you married your wife not her family. You and your wife are family and it does not matter what what her family has to say don't worry about it. Let it go in one ear and out the other.
2006-09-03 01:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by smooches986 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask them to move out. Don't talk to them.
2006-09-03 15:51:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋