2006-09-03 00:42:34 · 17 answers · asked by fancie165165 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A divorce does scar a person, not just men. But, any rational person should have fears when they marry. It IS taking a big chance. You are binding your life to another person, and becoming a part of that person. The great thing is that IF you can actually put your heart and soul into your marriage, you end up a winner in life, no matter what the world throws at you. A good marriage means that no matter what, you have ONE person that you can ALWAYS count on.
2006-09-03 01:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of my male friends, all who have been divorced do not wish to remarry any time soon. They all have their minds open to the possibility again, but as with anyone who has been hurt, there is a healing period one has to go through before one can try again. Trying to force someone to go through that healing period too soon could result in their reacting quite like fear. No one wants to make a painful mistake twice. The first experience anyone has with anything tends to color all future experiences with similar things until enough proof has been experienced to feel otherwise. I will be married soon. I do think, however, that it is a lot of work and I would probably not be so willing to do it a second time. Of course, everyone heals differently. Perhaps not remarrying is just a way to distance oneself from the pain of such a powerful rejection or feeling of failure?
2006-09-03 00:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by steele_feher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i told myself before i got out of my marriage that it would be a cold day in hell before I would do it again. But I guess hell froze since ive been with Marie. Never say never. You find that special person and all bets are off. Are we both afraid? Wouldn't say afraid but i feel it's more caution of never wanting to go through the pain, hurt and suffering that is caused by divorce. You ask yourself why get married then? I guess you might just call it the final completion to your love. Sorry I probably added in a bit more then you were asking...
2006-09-03 00:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Real Men are afraid of nothing. After my first wife cheated and got pregnant I was lost. I prayed that I would meet a nice woman. 12 years later I have the woman and the family I have always wanted, and I haven't looked back since. I was afraid to be hurt like that again but if you don't try then you will regret it.
2006-09-03 00:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my best male friend is divorced and is wanting to marry again but he says he is so scared,he thought the first time was for keeps and it went the way of many marriages,divorce,,he truly loves his g/f and she wants to marry,no pressure,it is a shame i think when the past continues to bite us on the ***,unfortunately there isn't a Crystal ball with the answers.
2006-09-03 00:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to get divorced I would never marry again.
2006-09-03 00:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it really depends on alot of different things.like,how bad the previous marriage was,how hard they took the divorce emotinally,etc.you never know.learning from first hand expirence,being a divoced guy,you learn alot about what to do ,and not what to do.
2006-09-03 00:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by hopelessly in love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true for my ex, he won't even date....I have been married 2 more times since him...He said when i left that he would never find anyone better than me , so i guess he's staying single and i never took one thing from him when i left.....He probaly knows that no other woman would put up with his crap so he's not even looking.............
2006-09-03 01:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Happy_Wheatland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i got divorced no way would i get married again ,Not worth the trouble
2006-09-03 00:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most of them. But some do remarry at a later stage. Sorry, don't have the statistics.
2006-09-03 00:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rebornie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋