If you came home to find your partner in bed with another, do you think you would be moved to a violent reaction?? (I don't necessarily mean murder, maybe just smashing up furniture)
Maybe you already have, if so, what did you do? and do you now regret it?
2006-09-03 00:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd walk!
I did... long ago... first husband... he's dead now. She was a prostitute, he took home and I interrupted them.
Second marriage fared no better... which is why there aint never gonna be a third! I'm very easy going... everybody says so, so partners took advantage of my easy nature.
I broke everything in the living room that meant something from our 23 years together in the second one, collectors items we had got together through all those years.
I did a scene worthy of Eastenders and everything was smashed from walls and mantel, and thrown into the centre of the room... and I double smashed to make syure they all broke since he devalued everything we did together, every memory was tarnished forever... I shocked myself and family... scared the s''t outa him... and it felt good afterwards, though not at the time!
He got on his hands and knees to clean it up... and I didn't even catch them at it... I merely found her love letter and when confronted, he then said he'd never loved me... not ever... in front of the son we'd raised and by saying that he demeaned our son's entire existence... that's why I did it, when I saw the pain on my son's face, I became a tiger!
2006-09-03 00:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very calm I would just turn and leave and make sure I pick up a hammer on the way out to smash all the lights on his car and maybe the windows as well. Then I would return home while he is out and change the locks leaving all his clothes outside with the hose running on them.
2006-09-03 07:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once came home to find my brother and my ex at it, I was quite happy about it as she was a *****. it was the perfect excuse to end a dead relationship and throw her out.
on the other side of the scale when my last girlfriend lied and said she'd been sleeping around I lost my sanity for quite some time and flipped out in a mental rage.
so having been there twice I still cannot give a definite answer to how I would react as the circumstance depends on the feelings you have for the individual involved. women f*ck you up.
2006-09-03 07:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by KU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, normally i'm not one for getting violent but on this occasion i woz fuming! I walked into my now ex boyfriends room and he was in bed with a girl who used to be my bestfriend! apparently they had been having this relationship for a while. When i seen them, i picked up the nearest thing to me which was an ashtray and throw it above their heads! my old best friend then looked at me as if to say why and i ... i nearly smacked her one! now looking back i dont regret it because i never regret anything in life, but in some ways i should have handled it better!
2006-09-03 07:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister came home on her & her boyfriends 1 year anniversary and found her boyfriend in bed with another woman...she lost it...she threw the girl to the floor and beat her boyfriend with anything she could get her hands on...then she grabbed a steak knife and stabbed him in the chest..he died of enternal bleeding...she got 38 years in prison...she's been in prison for 7 years now.
2006-09-03 08:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by sadie_oyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have no idea how i would really act becasue i have never been in that situation thankfully.. but if i would have, after contemplating and visualizing- I would probably do a lot of yelling, and no i wouldn't hurt any furniture becasue it would be mine after I took him to court. I would kick them out that instant and go file for divorce the next day.
2006-09-03 07:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know until I'm there. Right now I can sit here and think "yeah, I'd definitely grab something to hit him with and beat the "other" woman up but I'll never know until I'm there and hopefully I don't have to find out.
2006-09-03 07:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would depend on weather it was a man or another woman. Either way I would be surprised. Pleasantly if it was another woman and she was cute. I'd ask to join in. If it was a man I'd say have a great time. NO LIE!!!
2006-09-03 07:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Albatross 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i would applogize for interrupting and let them be.
the thinking behind it is. well, they knew they were doing wrong.
By doing anything violent, I would also doing something wrong that will give them room for rationalizing.
I will - naturally - as a matter of factly file for divorce and go my way. The fact that they had been doing it for fun won't be for fun anymore !!!
ENjoY
2006-09-03 08:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by vinod s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came home one day and caught my wife in bed with a midget, as i had threatened her after previous affairs, i start to walk away, but she argued that at least she was cutting down.........
Seriousley though, i did come home to find her in bed with another man, i wasnt sure how to handle it, so i got into bed with them, me and him are now a happy couple.............
2006-09-03 07:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋