2006-09-02 22:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I'll just make it happen and let him do the first move and wish for something good to happen you'll never know unless you try...
2006-09-02 23:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by twowizdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, clitoral stimulation is the trigger for most women, and a man who is on top (missionary position) and is taking long, deep in-out strokes might be hitting her liver, but he's missing her clitoris. One of my not-so-bright clients had once called this the mercenary position, and I think some women might agree. Now, for the same reason, if a woman is squatting over her guy and is bouncing up and down, all she is getting for herself is up-down vaginal stimulation, and most vaginas are not very sensitive. The neglected clitoris is missing out on all the action and the woman's excitement plateaus, shortly before her legs give out!
If, on the other hand, a woman straddles a man, leans forward and slides front to back, and if she stays in close, she can rub her clitoris on her partner's pubic bone as she pushes forward and can run her clitoris up the shaft of his penis as she pushes back. The man, who is laying passively on his back, will know she has made clitoral contact if on her back swing she bends his penis toward his feet. This gives her a good firm surface to rub against and will not cause any harm to the instrument of her pleasure. She must stay in close, however, to maintain the clitoral contact.
Some women can lay flat on top of their partner, but down lower on his body than the man might have chosen. She would want the erection to be pointing upward so that it passes over her clitoris and then enters her vagina. With short pelvic thrusts up and down, never losing contact with the erection, the woman can achieve the clitoral stimulation needed for her to reach orgasm.
There are several advantages to the female superior positions. First, it is the woman who is running the show and she is, therefore, able to get her clitoris where she needs it to be. Second, it is a neat trip for guys who are tired of orchestrating every encounter... it's his turn to get used. Finally, with a man on his back, with the very short strokes, and by staying fairly relaxed, he is very likely to last longer, giving his partner the time she needs to reach orgasm before he does.
2006-09-03 06:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sean B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does that not apply to everybody in the World at some stage? And to EVERY situation possible?
people learn through a combination of social conditioning (learning from society) and instinct.
2006-09-03 06:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have been doing 'the birds and the bees' since the dawn of time. Its no big deal. Its natural, and something that comes with our survival instinct. But it does get better with experience.
2006-09-03 06:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes naturally don't worry ;-)
Couple of tips though, don't try and eat someones face/tonsils and the washing machine technique is never ever good.
Have fun!
2006-09-03 06:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by twistie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're with someone you trust and you're relaxed enough to do what feels good, you'll work it out at the time.
2006-09-03 06:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by 876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking.
Everyone is different and likes different things.
Talk to your partner and ask them what they like.
Experimenting is fun...
Good luck but i'm sure you'll be fine.
2006-09-03 06:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Cheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw come on! It's an act on instinct, all of us already know how to do it even before we know it.
2006-09-03 06:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by The Guide Giver of the West 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and wait to find out then and it'll be 1000000 times better.
2006-09-03 06:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seen enough blue movies...
2006-09-03 06:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋