in japan what do young people think about sex?
is it common to have sex when dating.?
or they just wait until marriage?
coz i heard most girl in japan are not a virgin? is that true?
2006-09-02 22:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by Bryan 2 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Japan
same as here or even easier man, especially if ur white/black. japanese chiks dig americans big time. i'm japanese and I actually don't priciate the way japanese girls are today. it really lets me down but, hey man its the truth; most chiks there is slutty and doesn't mind doing it on the first date. off course there are some exceptions. Did you know there are MANY motles (they call it "love hotel") where couples go and do what ever they disire? they sell adult toys and porn and stuff. i never been there but from what i heard, many housewives meat up w/ thier luvers, partner and even many middle high school couples use it too.
2006-09-03 10:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by KANE-O 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Once praised for their studiousness, Japan's teenagers are gaining a less wholesome reputation, for promiscuity.
A recent survey found nearly 40% of senior high school students aged 15 to 18 have had sex. Nearly half of 17-year-old girls have had sex, compared with 17% in 1990.
Experts blame a combination of a cultural reluctance to openly discuss sex in the home and a popular culture that often treats teenage girls as sex objects. In addition, the proliferation of online dating sites has led to a rise in enjo-kosai ("compensated dating"), a euphemism for teen prostitution, in which girls sleep with men they meet in chatrooms in exchange for cash or gifts
2006-09-02 23:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sean B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't carry any stigma here in Japan.
Christianity was banned for long enough to avoid the abnormal obsession that most European countries (and America) suffer from... you know, the one that ends up with frustrated priests raping girls, boys, women ... maybe men too, the obsession that persecuted single mothers for centuries - after stoning them to death was abolished they either had their children stolen or they were locked up as mental cases. A few years ago in Britain, one of these Christian mental homes for young single mothers was closed, causing a nightmare for the local authorities because there were women who hadn't seen the 'real world' for 30 years or more, there were the children, now young adults - and there were the OFFSPRING of those young adults! None of these had EVER been allowed outside their prison!! That's Christianity.
Anyway, instead of making people feel like criminals for having sexual urges, people here have sex when - and IF - they want to. Unfortunately this HAS led to a minor problem of young women who will have sex with a man who offers them 'compensation'. They actually call it 'compensated dating', but I call them prostitutes. This compensation isn't always cash, designer goods are valuable currency here too...
Unfortunately too, years ago the Doctors of Japan (allegedly) persuaded the government to refuse to license the contraceptive pill (now it's available though, although I don't know how easy it is to obtain). Some women over the years have been persuaded to use abortion as a method of birth control instead - at least that's what SOME foreigners say, I don't believe it's true - certainly not NOW when the 'side-effects' of abortions are so well publicised. Anyway, if you look at this statistical list of abortions per capita
http://www.nationmaster.com/red/graph/hea_abo_percap-health-abortions-per-capita&nofb=1
you'll see that Japan falls WAY behind 9 other countries - including America. But there are people who like to accuse Japan of using abortions as contraception, so I thought I ought to mention it. (These people are especially prevalent on CrissCross news website.)
So, young people think that sex is acceptable.
They have sex when dating - unless they don't want to.
They have no reason to wait until marriage - virginity is only prized by dirty old men in macs, and they're not likely to MARRY a dirty old man in a mac, so why worry?!
Whether most girls are not virgins I wouldn't know, but I've noticed that condoms are much cheaper here than they are in the UK, so USE them if you have sex with anyone, in Japan or anywhere else!!!
2006-09-03 11:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by _ 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
if u go 2 japan don't ask about virgin coz u are not a virgin ithink, yakuza will kill u,
2006-09-03 21:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by mari-mar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to japan and let us know when you find the truth
2006-09-02 22:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by jjtrdx 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sex is like waking up ...just something to pass time and boredom
2006-09-04 00:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Laughing out loud. What a question! You go there and let us know, 'kay? Laughing even louder....
2006-09-02 23:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jolie A 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what do you have in mind?
2006-09-02 23:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tastevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know there are a lot of whorez there.
2006-09-03 05:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋