My friends boyfriend just brokeup with her over the phone...so she is goin 2 see her in the morning she said that she need to talk to him. Should she just leave alone or should she go try to fix it. But I don't understand why he did it he told her that he loved her and she said when she talked to him he said he did love her its just this new girl she stays in tha dorms and he see her everyday(my friend go to a different school). She is really takin this hard any advice plz help!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 21:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Diamond_Cutie06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She has been through so much in her life already losing her father a month ago. I just don't kno wat to tell her.
2006-09-02 21:12:31 · update #1
u all have a sitting together and settle the whole matter there.
that will be better , and descicive.
2006-09-02 21:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame she doesn't see he's not as committed to the relationship as she is. If he's gonna break up with her because some other girl lives in his dorm he's got the hots for is all it's gonna take to dump her then tell her she's better off finding out now and be glad the losers out of her life. There's plenty of other men out there who will treat her better. And no he doesn't love her, you don't love someone to dump them over the phone just so you can try to get with someone else.
2006-09-03 04:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to leave her,relationship can't be one sided and cheating is the worst ting to do in a relationship,he don't desrve her.Just live her life again with you,i min she's lucky enough to have a friend like you,help her and tell her dat ur always be der for her cause your friends....
2006-09-03 04:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u wanna be wid sme1 who does not wants 2 be wid u ?
dat guy is not mature..he wants 2 live his life like a bird who wants 2 fly tree 2 tree...but not settle down
da day he realises he's at mistake he'l miss da person who loved him da most...
never EVER beg for love....but let it come 2 u...
da 1 who'd let go of u...for some1 else...NEVER LOVED U IN TRUE SENSE....sorry but dats a reality & ur friend needs 2 accept it...dat he didnt love her...but played around wid her heart..
sounds harsh but dats a reality
2006-09-03 04:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to forget him... he is not worth it for her... if he can do this to her now.. i wont be surprise he will do this to her again... he is selfish and he doesnt care about her but himself... he never think about what she has done for him and now that her dad had passed away...what could be more worst but to do this to her... tell her to forget about him... he is not a good person for her... she wouldnt want to be in a long term relationship with this guy... he is selfish and mean and for what i can see... his love for her is not as before... so im afraid his love for her is drifting away because of the new girl...could be that he is in love with this new girl... tell her to forget about him and find a new guy... i know its very painful... but just think its for the best for your friend...for now, try to be there for your friend when she needs you because she will need you to be there for her alot... dont worry i'm sure your friend is a wonderful girl...she will sure find a right guy who derserve her and could give her unconditional love that she needs....
2006-09-03 04:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be sad....then mad....then be sad and mad some more. Just be there for her...help her survive. She will......lucky her she has a friend like you.
2006-09-03 04:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be there for her let her know she is worth more than that if she decides to speak to him let her do it so that maybe she will realize he is not worth her time
2006-09-03 04:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋