2006-09-02 20:35:30 · 26 answers · asked by jenny g 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Being fat is not what is causing you to be single. Your confidence level needs lifting. Being overweight doesnt mean that no one likes you. Someone will come along.Whether people will admit it or not the personality is what attracts people.Good luck.
2006-09-02 20:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Geez! Where the heck do you people live? Here fat girls get the guys and skinny girls only get the ******* the fat girls don't want. Then again, this is adult women. Guys in high school/college are too afraid to date the fat chicks because of the whole social thing. Don't worry, guys actually find out that fat chicks are a better catch in the long run....if not so where you are, move, its not like that everywhere, obviously.
2006-09-02 20:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on where you want to take your date. If its the prom, I have no ideas for you. If its just a date in general, try dating older men. young boys are to into themselves and how they look with a girl by his side. he is more into image than partnership. An experienced man, sees a woman for who she is as a person. He knows that a good woman is good on the inside and has and is faithful.and loving and caring.
2006-09-02 20:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong. Western culture is unusual in valuing skinniness. In most of the world a plump cuddly woman like my wife, and most of the girlfriends I've had, are considered attractive. And of course, there's much more than physical attraction to a healthy romance. Don't allow our media to take away your self-respect. Losing weight is a very cruel scam industry.
2006-09-02 20:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by zee_prime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they do not like you for who you are they can all go play in traffic! :P~~. I gained 10 pounds and feel awful, I have a standard for me, myself, & I. I do not get the guys looking at me now, so I know how you feel. I gained this due to inactivity because of a knee surgery. I HATE IT! Me and you are right now going to get up and exercise! However we are doing it for ourselves because if people can see this on the outside you know it is wrecking us on the inside mentaly and pysically. You need to move as much as possible 1-2 hours a day. You can do it!
2006-09-02 20:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I wouldn't worry about it......in the end it's all about the personality. Trust me. Okay here's an example. I'm a stripper, I'm 5'4, 109lbs and pretty cute. But I have a friend who is also a stripper and she's a big girl. I'd say maybe she's double my size. But here's the strange thing. At the club we make the same amount of money on an average day, because she's a sweetie pie and everyone loves her. (And "no" she's not dirty) So I wouldn't worry. Just be yourself and be happy with who you are.
2006-09-02 20:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by sarah u 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Easy advice. Go walk til you can run. Go run til you can't run any more. Continue this for as long as it takes. It's possible to lose weight.
I'd love to be one of those sweet girls who tells you that it doesn't matter what you look like. However, you should feel good about yourself. Make it a goal in life to change if you want, otherwise don't. Either way, you'll end up ok.
2006-09-02 20:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl over look all of the haters out there who judge you cause of your weight. Anyone who judges someone on their weight is narrow-minded and needs help their self. If they dont take the time to get to know you then its their loss not yours.
Find a guy who likes you for you. You dont have to loose weight to impress any guy. Anyone who would want you to dont really love you anyways, they want to change you.
Forget about the looser out there and start working on improving your self-esteem and find the right guy for you who likes you for you not for what he wants you too look like. Good Luck! :-)
2006-09-02 20:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 17:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE ABOUT LOSING WEIGHT! If you feel confident and beautiful about yourself then your fine... But if you don't you need to learn to love yourself! everybody is shaped differently! And there are guys who like bigger girls there out there hun don't give up! Keep being beautiful! your perfect the way you are don't let anyone bring you down.
2006-09-02 20:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋