2006-09-02 19:41:08 · 50 answers · asked by krissa 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why are you in such a hurry. Whether you like to hear it or not, you are still a child. Do you want to get older and realize that you made a huge mistake? Wait, you'll know when you are completely ready. Not only is there a possibility of STDs and pregnancy, but there's also the chance the you could do some damage to your body, being that you're so young.
And to all you people who just blow this question off and make it seem like such a stupid question: This is a serious question. This is becoming a HUGE problem these days. I am constantly hearing about 10, 11, and 12 year old girls being pregnant. It's not right. There is a 13 year old at my sister-in-laws school that now has had 2 children.
2006-09-02 19:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea for you to be worrying about that now. You body is still growing physically and mental and your still so young and in to much of a hurry to grow up. You can find so many girls out there that regret having sex so early in their life. In a way you loose your childhood and then there is all the worrys that gos with it PTD, pregnaces. I knew a girl in high school who was expecting a baby at 11 years old. It was very sad. I see things on TV about how the kids deal with sex these day and it is scary, no feeling no caring just like playing a game but that is all wrong it involes emotions, alot of emotions you might not be ready yet. It is suppose to mean something between 2 people. My son is 14 years old and we are very close and he told me he has chose to wait until he thinks his body is ready. I hope you make the right choise. It could be a choise that will effect the rest of the life.
2006-09-02 19:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by melindarix@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your 10 right. Well i'm 30 & I have a 10 yr old son. First let me say i will be speaking to you like you are my child, and my very good friend. You are someone's child who needs some helpful advice.
I am speaking from experience and statistics state that the reason most females start or want to have sex at an early age is because there is a void in your heart or life....like maybe your father is not around much if at all. Right? The point is you are missing something and most likely you are missing it from your parents/home. Am i right ? Honestly answer that question OK. Now What you should do is get into some academic programs or volleyball team, or basketball team ,or the girl scouts, or a recreation center, but you should be using your time now to have fun cause your only a kid once right? and when u grow up u will be paying bill, rent, carfare, food, pampers, etc. Are you ready to be an adult?
I wish i could be a kid again lol
I recommend that you wait till you are older.
And most importantly Don't ever have sex without you and your partner getting testing for std's and hiv/Aids. (you can't see germs but you'll feel them when they make ya sick right?)
PS. Another important fact Please choose your friends Don't let them choose you. You pick and choose who you want to be in your life OK. Don't be shy. You won't get what you want being shy and you most likely will be taken advantage of.
when they boys say how pretty you are and how good you smell don't let it go to your head cause they will be telling another girl maybe the next day or month. Don't worry about hurting theirs feelings OK hun you have to worry about yourself first.
Hope i helped ya.
2006-09-02 20:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently she doesn't feel comfortable talking with her parents because its super embarrassing. Find someone you do trust like the school nurse or guidance counselor or even an aunt or older cousin if you have one.
10 years old is way to young. When I was 15, I had a friend who got pregnant - and that was way too young. And unfortunately her younger sister did the same thing.
If you want to go anywhere in life be a role model and not be like everyone else getting peered into having sex.
Don't grow up too fast, you'll miss being a kid quick!
And get your period and grow up and realize that becoming a young woman takes time...
So wait on sex because it will be there when you'll be ready- truly ready!
2006-09-03 00:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by margaritalady07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends. How long have you been 10 years old. If you are like that little vampire girl from "interview with a vampire", then technically you are more than 200 years old. And sure, it would suck for you not to do it. But otherwise, no...
2006-09-02 19:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Please don't make a mistake and ruin ur life. Focus on ur childhood and education. Sex requires maturity and understanding. Better yet, why not wait until ur married and make love to ur husband, someone u know will be w/ u forever and who truly loves u? Sex can wait. Don't grow up too fast- enjoy life while u can.
2006-09-02 19:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No unless you totally wanted to break your parents hearts. You have so many years ahead where sex with drive you insane, forgot about it for now, its not worth the risks of pregnancy, STDs or drama
2006-09-02 19:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if ure 10 u really shouldnt be having sex but yes u can have sex when ure 10 but u shouldnt be doing it
2006-09-02 19:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. The ten year old body is not physically prepared to have sex. It also wouldn't be good for you psychologically.
2006-09-02 19:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, and you can't be posting here until you're at least 13. So you'd better get off now, before the Yahoo police phone your parents.
2006-09-02 19:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋