He emailed me today: the email is below this. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I do care for him a lot but I just didn't want to be in a serious relationship right now and he's the kind of guy who wants a serious relationship. I do love him and care for him but I just don't know what to do right now. I think he's gonna stop talking to me right now even though I still want to talk to him.
Here's the email:
I am writing this to you because there are feelings that I must express to you. I really wanted to say this to you maybe about a month after we broke up. I really didn't have the guts to tell you. Call it the schoolboy inside me. I was really sorry about how our relationship ended. I guess we couldn't avoid it. And no matter how bad it was, I couldn't help but think that someday you and I may someday cross paths again and who knows, right? I hoped and I prayed that we would at least talk. I don't know how many nights I spent just staring at your picture on the yahoo profile. Well it happened, we started chatting and then texting and talking again. I thought 'hey, i can handle this' ... that we're friends. I don't know if I can truly do that with you now, because when I have those feelings that are so strong, I end up doing or saying stupid things. I've done both tonight. I've done them in the past. I hope that someday you will forgive me for being so foolish. Someday I will mature enough so that I wouldn't act this way. And I don't expect you to wait for me. Please accept my deepest apologies and I wish you a happy life, wether you're single or if you're pursuing anyone, and I wish your family a happy life. Don't forget to take care of your mom.
2006-09-02 19:37:46 · 7 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
See this is why I don't talk to my exs at all...it's just baggage at the same time there is normally only one reason people do talk to their exs and that can really dampen any new relationship...check the bags at the door and get on with your life...sorry it is what it is, otherwise go back to him...but its like a great comedian once said, "Getting back with your ex is like taking a sip of sour milk outta the carton then putting it back in the fridge and hoping it will be better later." It won't be!
2006-09-02 19:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Skinny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how much you love each other, if you don't want something serious and he does, there will always be problems. honestly you need to wait until you are ready or you will feel stifled. people are ex's for a reason, think back to why you guys broke up. in my experience (and i have 3 best friends who kept getting back with their ex boyfriends) it always ends badly. they all ended up hurt and wishing they had just ended it.
2006-09-03 02:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will make him his favorite muffins for a year. If he takes you back. But,he has to do the dishes for a year. If it works out. Then it's real. There's no guessing.
Try taking a shower together first. Bring the muffin/dish washing idea up during the shower. If you end up having sex in the shower. That's not my fault.
2006-09-03 02:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by sandwreckoner 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex boyfriend is hurting. He just needs time and space to heal. You could also try to think things first.
2006-09-03 02:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very nice boy and i think u must chat with him and these words came from his heart(mouth-email)
2006-09-03 02:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a nice guy
2006-09-03 02:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by away right now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what Ur heart tells u to do
2006-09-03 02:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by sara k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋