My very first BF is... a loser! I mean, he got held back, gets straight Fs, is gross, had a horrible reputation, mean when he's around his friends, etc. But I... still like him!!! (U kno how ppl say you'll never 4get your first love??? OH S**T!!!) It's really dumb, cuse' I like him- when I really shouldn't!!! Is there any ways to forget about your 1st love???
PPPPLLLEEEAAASSSEEE?!?!?!?!??
2006-09-02 19:29:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make a list of all the crummy things about him, including anything he did or said to you that was crummy. Then make a list of what your perfect choice in a boyfriend would be like. Compare the lists.
THEN: Make a list of all the great things about yourself. And realize that you deserve someone better, who treats you with respect.
2006-09-02 19:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by PurpleAnkh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really your first love then there's nothing you can do to forget about him, unfortunately. My first love was from a freaky religious cult and I'm an atheist and still after 20 years I think about him, tho I'd never dare start a relationship with someone like him.
If your guy has habits that can be overcome, then go fo it.
If he has a criminal record because he's too ignorant to make a real life work, or if he's ever mean to you, and I mean EVER, then he's just trouble for you and you need to stay away!
Good luck...
2006-09-03 02:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me give u a little tip when u want to forget about ur love ones u know BF's GF's what i suggest u do is have a good time go to the club or go to the mall and stuff u know it feels good when u do that and have fun go to a party or go to the beach do stuff that keeps ur mind of the things that u was thinking by the time u do that u be like damn what waz i thinking? just do some stuff to make u busy and try this should 95% work
2006-09-03 02:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you realli like him that is no reason to give up on a relation ship but if u realli think he's a loser && that will ruin ur reputation && he is ur "1st love" then juss do wat u feel is right... Okay so that sayin isnt alwaysz true it dependsz on if this kidd realli is ur "1st love"... do u love him or like him... thatsz all it depends on if he affects u in a way u wont forget...
2006-09-03 02:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by afrobabi24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new love that helps and if this is your first love then your still young and you dont want to tie yourslef to someone who will bring you down and as you grow you may find you never really loved him at all you just think you do in the moment concentrate on your life and what kind of person you want to be and dont get so wrapped up in boys.
2006-09-03 02:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how he treats YOU! I try to base my friendships, or any relationship on how I am treated, not on how someone else is or has been treated. We all make mistakes, and he sounds like he has made some, but has he learned from them, and changed? I don't think that you can turn on and off who you love, some part of you will always care about him.
2006-09-03 02:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just trying to convince yourself he is a loser or maybe you are the loser for going out with him then putting him down.
2006-09-04 01:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by *ICE* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey i hear your in love with a loser and thats ok bcus love isn't judjed ly looks or money, true love is judjed by whats in your heart, and looks can't change, and i'm sorry to say but neither can u.
2006-09-04 01:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your second love will cure you of that ill. You are probably just a bit lonely and want someone--even if it is your ex--to fill that gap.
2006-09-03 02:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by jellyfishwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like you need to talk to your parents honey cause they probably told you noot to go with a moron like him in the first place. whywould a girl want to be treated like dirt in the first place? you will most likely be a parent yourself someday. so will you advise your daughter to love a jerk?
2006-09-03 02:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋