My husband follows me around and wants sex all the time, every time he sees me. I can't go to the bathroom in peace. He follows me in there and tries to pounce on me. Every night, every morning. If he had his way it would be 3 times a day every day. When I do give it up, he asks when's the next time going to be. Does anyone else have this problem?
2006-09-02 19:17:07 · 24 answers · asked by Mandy A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been together 10 years.
2006-09-02 19:25:05 · update #1
actually the difference in sexual appetites is a big issue with alot of marrages. As another person has mentioned, this should have been something that was talked about before. My boyfriend and I came to an agreement on how much sex we should expect. Unfortunately its not as much as I'd like but I'm dealing with it.
If you're not up for satisfying his every urge, what about trying other things such as oral sex, getting him a toy, watching videos together and let him satisfy himself.
I know this may not be what you wanted to hear.
I still think you guys need to talk about and come to a compromise on the amount of sex you will be having.
Then see what kind of things y'all can agree to try, Remember to not feel offended if he goes for some of the above suggestions. He loves you and he did come to you for these.
If on the other hand you think he may have a sex addiction you all may want to see a sex therapist.
good luck
2006-09-02 19:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by bluemidnightbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Because what you describe is not a problem. Your husband is attracted to you, seems to suffer from no lack of esteem, and by your tone, you seem to be happy with your marriage.
Maybe when you being unable to go to the bathroom turns into some socially embarassing situation, I'd say you had a problem. Until that time, I'm glad that your husband is looking to you to fufill his desires, and unlike a lot of marriages, would be seeking that elsewhere.
If I could be so bold as to offer a suggestion... communicate more with your husband if you think his sexual appetite is too much for you to quench. For any change to take place, you must take control of the situation.
2006-09-03 02:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't have a husband. But i will say that it is nice that he is into you so much, but it can wear out your relationship prematurley, becarful. I have to say that i also follow my girlfreind around alot but I also back off a little at times because a pause makes the next time alot more intense.
2006-09-03 02:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by schlongy1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont complain after 10 yrs thats a good thing now if he wasnt interested in having sex with you then you would be asking why not so enjoy it but talk to him about how you feel because you need to remember that whhile you are complaining about it what you wont do for your Husband there are alot of women who are willing and will.
2006-09-03 02:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Send him to my house. Joking. My husband and I have been together almost 11 years and there is no sex so I'd be thankful.
2006-09-03 07:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really get on my nerves and would be a huge turn off for me. Sex is only one part of a relationship. I think if my husband did that, I would never ever want it.
2006-09-03 03:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by frr_ls 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no but you should be happy. some women GET NOTHING !
you should be happy that he finds you so attractive that he wants to pounce you all the time.
you should be happy not annoyed by this.
take it as a compliment. maybe you need some personal lubricants ? or maybe you haven't reached orgasm yet ?
maybe he needs guidance.
because if you have orgasms all the time when he pounces you, I don't think you would be making complaints.
2006-09-03 02:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a deal with him. He will get some lovin 1 time a day IF he doesn't chase you around for it!
2006-09-03 02:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by maglitejenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot Honey,, consider yourself lucky,, wink,
2014-09-06 19:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Regina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy he wants you i guess. but if it's bothering you then tell him he may just be acting this way in a misguided attempt to show you he's attracted to you. how long have you been married? did this just become and issue?
2006-09-03 02:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋