Look I am NOT being vindicative I am just curious. For all those recommending divorce, I am working on that. And to the scanky looking person that said I was putting her life in danger, shut up, how stupid can you be? If I cant find anything out about her how is someone else going to by just a name? I am smart enough to realize that he is probably even lieing about that!! Dont answer someones question just cause you get off on being a smart ***!! Thank you to the one person who answered understanding what I am dealing with. He was right, it is like you want to know more but at the same time you can't really take anymore. So if my question pissed everyone off sobad I am sorry but walk a mile in my shoes and you'd know what it was like. You can always tell someone else what to do till you find yourself in the same situation and you react differently than you ever thought you would. Would it have killed you to show less hate and a more understanding? I am moving on but I'm also hurting.
2006-09-02 19:16:25 · 20 answers · asked by SpecialK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people have nothing better to than be rude to others, as often I have seen on here.
If you have a problem and need help, there is so many people out there can't be bothered taking a walk in anyone elses shoes, taking someone down is easy, helping them takes though, and these people obviously don't want to take the time to help, they should spend there time insulting some one outside, they do it here because if they had the guts to trash talk to others outside they would get the heads kicked in.
I have met people who give thoughtful answers, also one man in particular oddly enough and people are always saying guys don't care, not true at all.
I agree with you totally, people never understand until they have walked in your shoes, alot of people find everything acceptable until it happens to them.
Glad you are moving on from your pain, I hope it all works out for you, I know things take time.
I wish you all the best, take care, and remember inspite off the rotten as*holes there are some people who did join on here to help other people out.
Take care sweetie, I hope things work out for the best.
2006-09-02 19:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by christie_is_the_name 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I checked out your last question and you didn't mention you were getting divorced, so naturally people assumed you were just letting it all happen. Don't worry about what other people say. It's only their opinion not everyones. Sorry your having so much trouble. Don't take all this to heart. You did ask a question so please understand that none of this is written in stone or anything. You're still free to do what you want with your life. And let them do what they want with theirs. I'm not trying to be a smarta** or anything just trying to make you feel better about the rudeness on here. I've been through divorce and even though I was the one that wanted it, it still hurt. Good luck with everything.
2006-09-02 19:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your story about the husband and gf...and duh there are so many ways a person can get info on a person with their name and city of residence...Don't you read the new ..Here on the internet announcing her name is really dumb..I have to agree with the person ,,,You seem like a smart lady why do things that aren't going to help..If you are divorcing him then why all the questions about her..And others have walked in your shoes...You aren't the only one who has troubles with their husband..But you actually sound jealous , so do you or don't you want a divorce...
You are telling people off...but you are the one who asked the question and you recived answers so deal with it ...but don't be saying we are rude..by voicing our opinion...Get on with your life ...Leave this alone
2006-09-02 19:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 05:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by nathuram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are being vindictive I think you deserve better than your Husband thats all I didnt mean to sound judgemental or rude I simply said maybe you should get on your Husband and forget her.
2006-09-02 19:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooooooh
Some serious issues here
you must choose what is best for you, I had to divorce my 1st wife, and I had all the kids.
yeah, it does hurt, only time can cure that.
2006-09-02 19:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right , we can set here all night, and answer questions . and some of the answers do help . but unless we have been in the same spot. we don't know. sorry you got hurt.
2006-09-02 19:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't see your posts before this, but I would not necessarily listen to people recommending divorce. The vast majority of them on this board are CLUELESS and they think that people should routinely break their wedding vows on grounds of "unhappiness," and think that "you shouldn't stay together." They're extremely shallow, all of them.
2006-09-02 19:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to the a**holes- they love to find an opportunity to "kick someone while they're down" doesnt say much 4 them, does it? you do what you have to do & im sorry about your situation- none of us are "above it" it can happen to anyone & people should be more humble & compassionate- best of luck to you, sincerely.
2006-09-02 19:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep working on moving on i know it hurts, but one day you are going to realize how you been thru all the bad thing and this will make you stronger. :}
2006-09-02 19:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by chiquika 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋