I love him terribly and feel that I can't live with out im. I have no family, can't afford to move at the present time-but his porn addiction is out of control.
2006-09-02 19:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
From someone who has been in your shoes...like Nike says...Just do it! There is no how....but ill tell you why....if not now but later most likely he will expect for you to perform like a porn star.....to the point that he may want other ppl to join in intimate activities and you be a porn star for these ppl too....sounds far fetched....but either way...porn is like any other thing....its GREAT...in moderation....together!
2006-09-02 19:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by mystikalmoonwillow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing is that porn is like any other addiction and yes it is an addiction if you love him then work through it slowly tell him how you feel and that he shouldnt be looking at other women anyway i hate porn it is one of the reasons that alot of young men veiw women as only sexual objects i know my cousin has this problem and i am helping him to see the light through bible principles and as for the people who allow shareing porn with your partner what the ??? your only opening the door for adultery... my sugestion try getting some oils and good sexual position books to help take his mind out of the books and into the bedroom
2006-09-03 02:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by family guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always something that will be lurking around to sway one or both of you.Maybe it will have to be that you have to break him of the habit of turning on the porn.or mags,or whatever he has.Good luck.If this is just the worst thing to you,then you will have to make him realize,but if you still love him,than realize it is an addiction.If he would rather have the porn than you,then consider leaving him,but do try all avenues in this case.I would .If you just can't sway him and you despise him because of it..you have every reason to find peace with yourself on this matter how ever you can handle it.
I do not care what Dr Phil says..or Oprah.
2006-09-03 02:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried everything to get him to stop with the whole porn thing i mean don't jump the gun here if you really love him try everything before you leave him
2006-09-03 02:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by brown eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with him looking at porn? Would you prefer he went out and cheated on you.
Just because he looks at porn doesn't mean he doesn't love you. My partner and I both look at porn. There is nothing wrong with it.
2006-09-03 02:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you given him an ultimatum, you or the porn? If he won't choose you the he isn't worth it. Tell him, explain how you feel, then move out.
2006-09-03 02:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man! its no wonder we women are never satisfied, find a great man, and he's got this flaw...porn....hope thats all thats wrong, could be worse, he could be doing other women! have you tried watching it with him?
2006-09-03 02:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by whydiduaskthis? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him. talk to him about the porn.
2006-09-03 02:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[SARAH] IN MY OPION I AGREE WITH ON THIS MATTER REMBER THOSE ARE PICTURES NOT LIKE HE WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN AND COMMIED ADULTRY WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS AND TELL HIM TO ACT LIKE A MAN AND SAVE YOUR MARRAGE AND STOP WORRING OVER PICTURES. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS. YOU AND HIM ?
2006-09-03 06:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to bed give him a good time i think it may help you
2006-09-03 07:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋