I need help. First, this is serious and I am really loosing my mind. Let me start by saying I have 5 children. 2 children live with the dad in another state next to me. I would get the kids every holiday and all summer and talked to them almost daily. Then my husband and I have three children with us. 5yr boy, 3yr boy, 1yr girl. Well, last christmas the two older 13yr boy and 12yr girl came to visit and seemed fine. They retured to fathers in another state when my 5yr boy claims the 13yr boy his brother tried molesting. I called my ex to find out what was going on we came to the conclusion my 5yr old maybe the dad of that boy was saying mean things to try to hurt me,. Long story short, I reported(the mother of all 5kids)to the dept. of family children,police and got the kids to counseling. It came time for the older 2 kids to visit again and dad wouldn't let my son come due to the rules of alarms.My daught came and confirmed the molesting and my 3yr boy also. Now i have temp custody bu
2006-09-02 19:11:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lopez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have temp custody of my 12yr girl the problem is her dad and grandmother are treating her horrible for telling because my son will be chaged for this. Her dad and grandmother have treated this like it was a custody plot for me and she is evil like her mom. God I hate this for my child. Daddy gets his son a big attorney to protect him and says to my daughter she'll be home when it clears up. The heck she will --I love all my kids and if this is true with my son he needs help and see why he is acting out like this? Not to cover up the truth I want to know why! Was he molested. I can't even get straight answers and by law my ex has custody of him and he decides to get him help and he chooses not to and condim my daughter. I need help with legal fees for the attorney out of state I can't get finacial help for I live in another state. I am tring to set up a legal fund for cost of traveling if anyone has ideas please let me know as I have 4 kids + my temp custody can expire and dad wants b
2006-09-02 19:22:47 · update #1
Her dad wants her back and I have paid some money but not all I need ideas... I can't believe a father would favor his son over this his little girl??? I mean has he lost his mind I know I am and have not seen my son since and his birthday is soon to be 14 and I choose not to see him out of fear and rage that is inside me. Please my counselors haven't helped but said I am doing right keeping my kids safe. That's all I want my kids to be happy healthy,produtve people whom find there way and calling in live. Please anyone any ideas or want to chat this is really killing me.Thanks
2006-09-02 19:30:40 · update #2
Child protection services is probably the right way to go, as you did. See if you can get counselling or therapy for all of your children, not just the three boys, as well as yourself. Make sure that you pick a therapist who will be open and non-judgemental, and who is experienced in familes, children, and sexual assault. If money is tight, look into pay-what-you-can clinics and state supported clinics. Talk to a social worker with child protection services about what they suggest too.
At the very worst, to protect your younger children from your older son, you may be able to petition the state to lose custody of the older children, however this may risk your and your husband's custody of your younger children and also will not protect your older daughter.
Best wishes.
2006-09-02 19:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by zandyandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your use of the english language is so garbled, it is extremely difficult to understand what you are trying to say, so, I am unable to offer you any advice because I can't understand you. It sounds like your entire family situation is about that same way too...
2006-09-03 02:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry about that I hope all works out and since it's family it's alot harder
2006-09-03 02:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! your story is really confusing..i couldnt figure out who was doing what to whom...but from what i did understand, maybe you need to see a lawyer.
2006-09-03 02:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY F*CK*NG GOSH! i would go insane 2
2006-09-03 02:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call the cops
2006-09-03 02:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG
u r right
2006-09-03 02:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋