2006-09-02 18:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
What makes a guy a loser? Oh let me count the ways...
HE...
- lives with his parents
- is a Toys R Us kid (runs from responsibility, doesn't ever want to grow up and says so or demonstrates it)
- graduated the 8th grade and has no plans to further his education
- whines
- does not have a job, pay his own way
- dresses inappropriately for the situation
- has no respect for others
- has not respect for himself
- does not take pride in his appearance (smells, looks sloppy, clothes rumpled or dirty)
- is rude, crude, lewd
- has no morals--it is all a gray area
- tells you what you want to hear rather than what is real
- has no spine--is not assertive--a follower, not a leader
- abuses drugs
- drinks too much/too often
- has children he does not take care of/see
- takes no responsibility for his woes --- blames the world for his problems
- talks about and cares only for himself
- doesn't listen
- can't effectively communicate his needs
- thinks fighting is manly and a great way to solve differences
- is sexist/racist/insecure
- is stupid/ignorant and likes it
- can't share, is selfish
- has no effective coping skills
- has no driver's license and is over 18
- bounces checks
- is mean to animals, kids, old people, strangers
- is insensitive, mean
- lacks self-control
- is verbally, physically, sexually abusive
Any questions? Hope this answers that. I included things one notices right off that scream "loser" and things one notices while getting to know someone. Good luck
2006-09-04 23:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't tease her and make her insecure, if he is sweet, if he shaves and has no tattoos, if he doesn't lie to her to get her panties off, if he tells her his life story, if he admits his faults. Anything that makes a guy look weak will make her despise you. She wants you to be weak after you're together, but not before hand. But people don't change, and women harbor the fantasy they can change you, which makes no sense, because men are people and people don't change. Therefore women get their cherries popped by humunculous mongoloids who can treat them like garbage when they're young, and then well-adjusted men get the leftovers later in life. That's how it works. Peace out.
2006-09-03 02:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he is a loser
2006-09-06 04:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's a cheapskate. If he's an arrogant, obnoxious s-o-b. and acting like a total jerk most of the time. And especially when he is selfish and inconsiderate.
2006-09-03 01:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by rosieC 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he loses in a game
2006-09-03 01:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Super Sonic Tony 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's actually nice and respectful.
2006-09-03 01:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋