hi, im 15 and i have been tryna get pregnant (sounds crazy huh?) the first time i tried my period was late n when it did come on it lasted 3 days my usual period is 6 days. the next month i treid again 2 times and my period was a week late and when i came on it was very unual and lasted 8 days and now its september and my stomach has gotton big and i have been having pains n my lower back. so can i be pregnant? im so confused
2006-09-02
18:51:51
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my boyfriend does know about it, we decided on a baby together. we do have a job, and in a stable home. we have saved up lots of money.my boyfriend is 16 years old.please no negative comments right now . i do understand all of the effort it takes to raise a baby. and im up for it all
2006-09-04
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It is possible that you are pregnant, but being 15, you are in for a very hard time. Are you sure that your parents will let you keep the baby? They are still your legal guardians, and if they do not want the responsibility, they can probably make you give it up for adoption. Why were you trying to have a baby, do you understand how hard it is to be a parent? Do you have a job so that you can pay for food, clothes, and medication if the baby is sick? Have you done the research on how much these things cost? Will you have to pay to put your baby in day care and have someon else raise them just so you can go to work and be able to afford to take care of him or her? And what about school? Will you be able to finish school so that you can get a job that pays more than minimum wage? Go to the doctor and get a pregnancy test. I am a young mom, and if you want advice about anything, email me and we can talk. I wish you good luck, and if you are not pregnant this time, think about some of these things before you try again. It really is harder to raise a child if you do not have the education and the job to do it. even people who are older struggle, but at least they have more and more opportunities that they can usually give their child. Good luck. Email me through my profile and let me know how you're doing soon.
2006-09-02 19:12:01
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answered by Cyndi Storm 4
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Yeah right a 15 year old and a 16 year old with jobs and a stable home...and pigs fly and the moon is made out of green cheese too huh?
2006-09-09 04:30:28
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answered by Anonymous
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are you nuts little girl! do you have a job, your own place, finished school or even lived enough to know that babies are more responsible than you could ever handle. where are your parents. HOW do they feel about this? who is going to watch your baby while you go to school , who is going to buy pampers and milk who is going to take this baby to the doctor when he gets sick (God forbid) you cant drive or afford a car. you are a child because you are not wise enough to know that having children is a grown folks affair , not another childs place. girl , you got me upset right now , how dare you assume that your your parents are ready to raise another child because after all they are still taking care of you. i am gonna stop here cause i could fuss at you all night if i thought it would change your mind. but only you can make a better decision than ruining your life at such a young age. i know my opinion is harsh but it hurts to see my future falling down before its had the chance to rise up and take control of our world by going to school and getting your education and making a good life for your self , nothing is more attractive than a confident educated woman, men will be falling at your feet. have a beautiful wedding and give your husband the most beautiful gift A BABY! GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND LET GOD IN YOUR HEART.
2006-09-03 02:10:54
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answered by purpleartof5 2
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Does your partner know you're trying to get pregnant? Have you discussed marriage? Babies are for keeps. It's far easier to prevent a baby than raise one. Please stop and think about this. You're very very young. Obviously you love babies, but having one is a huge responsibilty. Your baby deserves the best possible circumstances in which to be born into. Your baby will have lots of love, but will you be able to buy the $139 antiobiotic she needs when she's sick and has an ear infection?
2006-09-03 02:40:02
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answered by Mrs. Strain 5
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Lower back pain could be a sign of pregnancy. For a 15 y/o, it's hard for me to understand why you want to get pregnant. First of all, it's a huge responsibility. Secondly, your social life will become dull since your other friends will be going out on dates with boys your age. I am not lecturing you, just a genuine concern.
2006-09-03 01:56:35
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all why in the world would a 15 year old want to get pregnant, when you have your whole life ahead? But if your not sure if you are, go and get a home pregnancy test or go to a clinic and get tested.
2006-09-03 02:01:16
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you could be but if I was you I'd go to the docter and find out so you can start seeing what is healthy for you to be doing because when your pregnant theres a lot of things your not subpost to do. That way your have a healthy baby. good luck
2006-09-03 02:10:00
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answered by conswayla 1
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yes you could be. i had a period the first 6 months with my last child. i have 4 children. and yes it is crazy to want it at your age. i was like that i was just wanting a reason to move out and live with my boyfriend. now i thank god that i didnt get pg. at least i was able to be with my dad longer before he passed away. i was 16 when i meet my guy. my dad passed when i was 17.
2006-09-03 02:25:52
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answered by kat 2
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It could just be that you're a growing girl and your hormones aren't all regular yet. Get a pregnancy test.
But I must say, It's a very stupid idea to try to get pregnant at 15. You are not old enough to be able to support a child and you'll be missing out on being young. You've got plenty of years to have a kid, please rethink it.
2006-09-03 01:57:33
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answered by Liz 2
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you better go to doc and have a ultrasound examination. I am confused why you want to pregnant at 15 such a young age when you are supposed to be in school.
Good luck!
2006-09-03 02:08:10
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answered by louisa 1
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