For starters, I used to hurt myself but I met this amazing girl who helped me stop. Now I'm so afraid that I'll mess up and lose her that I want to slip back into old patterns. What do I do? I love this girl so much and I know if I do it it will hurt her but sometimes I just break down sobbing because I'm afraid I'll lose her and its been the only way I know how to cope.
2006-09-02 18:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off let me say i am glad you stopped hurting yourself ..but sounds like the pattern has been set?? when you are upset you want to slip back to that comfort zone .. so you are in need of more help than this girl can give you.. and you worry about losing her so sounds like you are a bit insecure.. .. if she cares she will be there if not there is nothing you can do to prevent it, by going backward to the old zone you will destroy yourself and the relationship so please please get some real help.. talk to your school counselor and see if they may advise you in the right direction and direct you to the right person.. God bless you .. get help soon .. like yesterday.. .
2006-09-02 18:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try and find another outlet for our stress, something that helps relieve the tension you feel without resorting to self-inflicted pain. Exercise is an extremely healthy outlet for stress and pent-up feelings. In some ways it can be kind of a self-inflicted pain. It is a way to push yourself and feel your muscles straining. You might also want to address your fear of abandonment with your girlfriend. Talk about it so that she doesn't feel suffocated. She might be able to help you work through your feelings.
2006-09-03 01:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by MegySu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean that you self-harm by cutting, burning, etc..., then you need to go see a doctor. Take care of yourself and try to do what's right. This will give you the best chance to keep her. Be strong.
2006-09-03 01:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WILL NOT LOSE THE GIRL.
since she is the one who brought tou back, she will like to taste the fruits of her efforts.
she will not like to see her efforts waisted.
this opportunity comes once in a life time.
NOW SMILE.
BROADER. STILL MORE BROADER. THAT'S IT.
GO AND MEET HER WITH THE BEST FLOWERS.
2006-09-03 01:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get other help.other than her so that you can cope without her if you had to.that is a very serious condition.you need to fix the problem not cover it up.
2006-09-03 01:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i 'm emo too yea its really hard but tell her hows she helped u and cherish her ....dont worry about the future worry about the now....its easy for other people to say get help but its hard know how u feel exactly
2006-09-03 01:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by oxarielxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+Seek professional help man ..what the hell is wrong with you wanting to hurt yourself
2006-09-03 01:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by UgottaBkiddinMe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-09-03 01:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by sneha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋