Who most of the people are not happy with marrage ?

Question

should i marry or not ?

Answer 1

THEY HAVE GREAT EXPECTATIONS ABOUT WHAT MARRIGAE MEANS, BUT THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS REALLY ABOUT. THEY THINK THAT THEIR PARTNER WILL STRIVE TO MAKE THEM HAPPY, BUT THIS IS UNREALISTIC. RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONSTANTLY EVOLVING, AND THERE IS CONSTANTLY OPPORTUNITIES FOR COMPROMISE. YOU HAVE TO HAVE EMPATHY FOR YOUR PARTNER, AND ALWAYS REALIZE THA THEIR PERSPECTIVE IS VALID, EVEN IF YOU DON'T AGREE OR UNDERSTAND. YOU JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT NOT EVERYONE THINKS JUST LIKE YOU DO, NOR SHOULD THEY, AND YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR WAY IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT. ADDITIONALLY, YOU HAVE TO ACTIVELY FULFILL YOUR PARTNER ALWAYS, AND NEVER FORGET TO OR BECOME SELF-ABSORBED. YOU HAVE TO GIVE THEM WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TO BE EMOTIONALLY INTIMATE AND TRUST THEM TO NOT SQUASH YOU.

Answer 2

Only you can answer whether you should marry or not. But if you truly love this person, and you can see spending the rest of your life with this person, and you want to build a future with them and have children, sure, why not? If you have any doubts then it's probably not a good idea. Having been married once, I'm happy living with someone but that's me and I know had I thought it out carefully I probably shouldn't have gotten married (I knew it was a big gamble). Had I felt 99.9% sure that he was the one and what I wanted in a husband, I would have done the right thing by being married.

Answer 3

here is the thing, my parent are very unhappy with their marriage... lets face it after the peptides in your body stop producing that lovey dovey feeling the two loose intrest in one another and see eventually that they are just like the other jerks that are out in socitey. So I'd say if you wanna; sure, go for it. But from what I have heard marry a rich person, so you can still live a wonderful life... marriage is serious... it really depends on you...are you ready? What do you want?

Answer 4

if you love a woman for who she is yes you should.
if you just want her for sexual reasons, no its not a good idea.

make sure she feels the way that you feel for her.

a relationship where one gives too much and the other not enough, usualy ends up no where.

love is an important factor in marriages. if your relationship is just physical, it will not last too long. the chances of the other person moving on to another person who is more attractive then you is likely.

Answer 5

yes,,,you should marry...but before hand...unlike most couples....make out your differences...tell each other what you want out of the relationship...share your dreams,desires, goals,hope. and all the above...Lot's of people get married thinking the roses will grow forever....but you've got to water it,nurture it, feed it,watch it grow, When the weeds take over...clean them out....You have to know what to expect and what you'll except before you do it...if more people took time to do this...we wouldn't have so many divorces.

Answer 6

Because marriage was created when people had children at 13, and died at 30.

It's obsolete today.

Answer 7

theirs no such thing as 50-50 sometimes it takes 110% but the reward es if you love each other make it more than worth while

Answer 8

the thing is people usually speak about things that bother them

so , you usually hear bad stores

but there are lots of successful stories in marriage

marry if you like!! its ur own choice

Answer 9

u married someone for love not many power or anythik lik it
be sure u love the person becaue it is for ever...

Answer 10

I am happy and I love my husband!