and he always help me do anything and hes my supervisor what should i do serious answers only please
2006-09-02 18:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Flirt with him back, you've got nothing to lose. If he chooses you, well then that's great.
2006-09-02 18:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt back. Tell him you think work is work, and there's nothing there for a realtionship... because, girl, clearly if he is your supervisor and has a girl, but flirts with you.. he probably thinks he is some kind of macho guy, when he's not. It's not macho to flirt with other girls when your gf hopes your commited. Yer not the only one he flirts with, I can guarentee it. He has most likely cheated on his girlfriend. One thing to think about: If he dumped his girlfriend for you, whats the chance that he wouldn't cheat on you, then, later?
2006-09-03 01:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he has a girlfriend what does that say?? If he is flirting with you would you really be interested in someone like that .. he would most likely do the same thing to you.. and second he is your supervisor.. .i would say run the other direction .. think of your job .. and his girlfriend would you like a man you are with to do that to you?? If the answer to that is NO then don't do it to someone else.. he is a loser.. ...
2006-09-03 01:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much as I disagree with the existance of sexual harrassment, this guy and your situation kinda fits the classic Hillary Clinton arguement that got the dam PC term and subsequent workplace policy that's everywhere.
If you feel "discomfort" at the attentions this offender--your supervisor--is giving you, then you have to ( in presence of the office "Human Resource" rep) report the guy to HIS supervisor.
Don't get the notion you'll have the guy fired or win millions of dollars in Civil Court being this "alleged victim" of sexual harrassment. Businesses today have long gotten over the shock of early sex harassment / civil court victories; they now have "step policies" that are enacted in sex harrassment claims.
They'll likely bring the guy in and "counsel" him not to behave in flirtatous ways towards you, and have him sign papers to that effect. Oh.....and you can really believe (scarastically spoken) assurances YOUR SUPERVISOR won't target you for "retalitation" or "catch-back". Even with a good attorney, you can NOT avoid being a target....and your life at that job pretty much will go downhill fast from there.
Then of course, there's the guy's girlfriend.....don't think she'll cozy up to you in one of those "sisterhood boo-hoo" stick-together sessions to bemoan her love's betrayal. So, do you really want THAT added attention, too?????
So your logcial and only real option is to directly AND discreetly tell this guy to stop his advancements.....and be on the new job hunt should he "catch-back" on you.
2006-09-03 01:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend and he is your supervisor, than dont think much about the flirting except to take if for what is worth its just flirting....you dont want to mess up his relationship and be the other woman and you dont want to mess things up in your job so just flirt and dont take it seriously...it can be fun and harmless...dont let it become more than that. if he goes too far ask him how his girlfriend is doing and that will cool him off.
2006-09-03 01:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not only flirting with you but any other female that will give him the time of day. Don't fall for him. He just trying to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-09-03 01:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl you play second to none.You are a queen by your own right and as a queen you should be treated.
2006-09-03 01:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by REALITYCHECK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop - you don't need his help
unless you are flattered by his attention, in which case I suppose you will have to settle with a man who cheats on his girlfriend
(*sigh - when will women EVER wake up??)
2006-09-03 01:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probly a player so you can go ahead and have him, but probly get played youself..
2006-09-03 01:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him,don't entertain the feelings u r starting to feel for him....u know he has gf so wat do u think of wat he's doing is it rite of course not.....and it only min 1 thing he's some kind of a playboy who wants to take advantage on some girls...
2006-09-03 05:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋