who no longer "love" each other?
why or why not?
2006-09-02 18:29:07 · 16 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
okay... when married couples no longer think their marriage is going to work.
2006-09-02 18:32:03 · update #1
i am not married, but i personally don't agree with divorce... what happened to the wedding vows?
2006-09-02 18:36:29 · update #2
No, absolutely not, and the only moral grounds for getting a divorce is if one person is unfaithful. People are not serious about it today and disregard their vows.
If I became like a king, one of the first things I would do would be to outlaw convenience divorce, convenience abortion and all of the conveniences that occur because of liberalism.
We hardly have a country left because of divorce and it's gotten way out of control, nearly a 50 per cent rate. And you people say, "oh, go ahead." I think you're all very misguided and extremely selfish. If you say "until death do us part" before God and man, THEN YOU SHOULD MEAN IT! LOOK AT ALL OF YOU! WHAT DISGRACEFUL ANSWERS!
2006-09-02 18:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Divorce isn't a good answer to any marriage. that is the perfect answer. once you've exhausted each and every plausible technique of reconcilitation, without hopes of operating issues out, then and actually then could divorce be considered. what's "married no longer lengthy?" A year? a lot less? the first couple of years of marriage are the hardest, for any couple. issues commence out nicely and also you journey the extreme thoughts of the honeymoon for some months. Then, that prime wears off an dyou are left with the different human being. the different human being is the single you informed you need to standy via them in good and undesirable circumstances. more effective or worse. today, it appears like you're at a nasty spot. it is going to pass, except you deide no longer to do some thing about it, and walk away. i imagine in case you stop on the marriage before you commence to wrestle for it, you've gotten lost more effective than you imagine. Get some training from a counselor. in case you both are committed to the courting, you'll artwork via this. do not forget, you adore your better 0.5 and they love you, you actually ought to unlike one yet another at latest. be certain a fashion to get previous this second and the arriving years will be more effective. good success
2016-12-06 04:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes to divorce, If love is no longer apart of a "couples" lives, remaining married to each other is no longer justified. Many marriages break up and do it badly angrily and nasty, I know some breakups are friendly and civil. Most people getting divorced can't stand to be in the same room little share their lives together unhappy, and making everyone they know unhappy as well.
2006-09-02 18:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by unwise_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I want to say I'm sorry if this is your problem, I completly understand what you are going through. I am there myself. I noticed you quoted the word love. Apperently you still have feelings for this person. Thats good. But unfortunatly you are no longer in love, yes it is a good solution. If you no longer have love for each other that defently means that there is someone else out there for the both of you. You shouldn't waste your time with someone who is no longer in love with you. Its not fair to either one of you. Although don't feel that your time HAS been wasted thus far. You just now have the knowlegde that you need to proceed to someone else.
Good luck in all you do!
2006-09-02 18:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. Why hang around in a situation where you are only going to make things worse. If the couple is still in a good place and can talk things out, it is the best time before resentment and anger set in. Move on and start living a new life and just hang out with the ex when you feel like getting together. You can always be friends if you leave the relationship before it really goes sour. Good luck!!
2006-09-02 18:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's better to a marriage counseller first. Also, sit together discuss it with common friends. If you still don't think that things will work out between you two, it's time to say a friendly good-bye.
2006-09-02 18:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by Utkarsh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they don't have children than it's a better solution.
But I don't understand one thing that why you people have made LOVE so cheap. Please use the word infatuation in place of it. Because LOVE is a very sacred. If you really love someone than there is no going back. Once you had fallen in love with someone than its impossible to withdraw no matter what.
2006-09-02 19:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by goodbye 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have kids then yes. Divorce is good for you.
If you have kids, stick it out for them. You may remember what you loved about your spouse. Children who's parents divorce are more likely to get/be divorced themselves.
2006-09-02 18:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mojo Jojo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.
Spending the next thirty miserable years of your life in tears with a martini in one hand and a baseball bat in the other is a much better idea.
2006-09-02 18:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's more to it than " love" since you place it in quotes I will assume you meen the romantic, stars in the eyes love.
If you have children you best make it work.
2006-09-02 18:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋