When me and my husband are having sex he never tells me whether he came or not, and when he gets up and puts his pants on I ask if he did, and he sometimes will say, "I don't know", or I "think I did" why wouldnt he know if he did or didnt..... I know when I c-u-m and I can't really tell if he did or not because of the wetness from my vagina.
2006-09-02 18:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by *Due 8/28/09* Baby Boy!#1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have a question, Does he ever ask you if you came?
2006-09-03 01:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by darcigreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Semen has a very distinctive smell. Plus, your husband would know if he came or not, an orgasm isn't something that can slip by unnoticed.
Try talking with him about it (outside of the bedroom) and gently share your concerns.
2006-09-03 01:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by roomwithaview 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you use a condom, it is difficult to say!!
Your man would know better. But otherwise women do feel when the man ejculates into her.
from very short query of yours, it appears, that it is done more out of a routine chore, rather than an enjoyable act.
That may just be the clue... may be try more foreplay.
2006-09-03 01:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by anand_dba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.... of course he can tell.... the only way they get soft is to come or to get bored. If he did, He knows and noramlly you can tell to.
This may sound odd but watch a porn or two.. those men are not faking that.
2006-09-03 01:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by mommynokissies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by you being his wife he should feel comfortable talking about anything with you if he really does not know when he cums you all should go to the doctor together because that does not sound normal
2006-09-03 01:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dion O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably because he came to fast and he's embarrassed and if u cant feel it wen u c-u-m then ur not gettin fuked hard enough i can help u wit dat if u wanna feel how gud it is wen u *** then email me
2006-09-03 01:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by young nipplez 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way he doe's not know. I would bet he just knows when you do and stops.
2006-09-03 01:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can he not know? I don't get it either. Did you try to talk to him about it?
2006-09-03 01:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lola76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious when a man cums. He stops.
2006-09-03 01:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sherry M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he knows maybe something else is going on
2006-09-03 01:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by murkymom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋