I love a girl that is my best friend. She is always cuddling and hugging me, and she is so beautiful and she says she really likes me, and that i am so funny. But, she is dating this guy a year older who is a jerk. He talks bad about her while their dating, but she thinks she loves him ,and it would kill her if anyone told her he talked about her. I want her to love me, more than anything. She is unexplainably perfect. How could I get her to date me without hurting her feelings? I really love her and need some help.
2006-09-02 18:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by john 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All I can say is be very honest. Tell her your intentions are not to hurt her, but that you are her friend and you want what's best for her, and that she should know the truth about the mean things her bf says about her.
Turning a friendship into something serious is so, so touchy and easily botched, especially if she doesn't feel the same way about you. Like I said above, if you love her, be very honest with her.
Just know that by professing your love for her, you run the risk of losing her altogether. I guess at this point, you have to ask yourself which you'd rather have: Friendship, or Love, or nothing at all.
2006-09-02 18:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst element you're able to do is combat with Rachel. If she messes with all of Kate's boyfriends then i might say there is a few jealousy going at right here. Jealous that Kate would be spending much less time along with her. And jealous that Kate has a b/f and she or he of course does not. If she did have her very own guy then she does no longer be so worried approximately butting into Rachel's love existence. i'm particular this occurs perpetually contained in the international of young toddlers. besides the indisputable fact that, you are able to desire to handle Rachel because of the fact even even with the undeniable fact that she ought to no longer be able to interrupt you and your female up, she ought to reason you a head-soreness or 2. I say.....Kill her with kindness. attempt to incorporate her in exciting events with your female. you are able to desire to win her over. Smile and shaggy dog tale around along with her. If she gets sufficient interest from you and Kate she would be in a position to comprehend your no longer the "undesirable guy" like she until now theory. If attainable discover her a date. Do you have any friends that ought to prefer to go out along with her?that could be the perfect element because of the fact as quickly as Rachel is a touch happier you and Kate can focus on your relationship.
2016-09-30 07:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her bf is saying stuff about her behind her back u have to do somthing its your job as a FRIEND if she does break up w the jerk then wait awile for her she is to vonerable u want her to love you not use u to get back in shape for a bf wich she proble wouldent do cause youe her friend but she could just really need somone sont hurry things
2006-09-02 18:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends take care of friends, and i think you should have a serious talk with her. Tell her that she deserves better then that jerk she with. Then give her time, and make your move.
2006-09-02 18:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by cassie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz a girl and a boy cannot be best friends they will fall in love ones in life with each other so tell her you love him but if she wants to go with someone else then there is no problem to you so if she loves you too then she wud reply MAIL ME WHAT HAPPENS YES OR NO BYE
2006-09-02 19:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do, also the hardest , is to tell her all of this, just let her know how u feel about the guy and give specific details to back up what u feel.
2006-09-02 18:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Eugene M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever mention this to her? She may be waiting on you to make the first move.
2006-09-02 18:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he talks bad try to chetch it on tape and sneak it in her room.thats what i did and me and my friend beau got together quick.
2006-09-03 04:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. sometimes dating a friend can really ruin and turn your friendship around.
2006-09-02 18:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by voodoochild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't last-be patient, be there when she needs you. Don't fawn all over her. Keep her laughing.
2006-09-02 18:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋