One of my friends, said that i was talking about him/her behind his/her back and i really wasnt and i think when i told him/her that i didnt they didnt believe me so what should i do?
2006-09-02 18:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Someone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If youve already explained yourself and they still didn't believe you, just let it slide. The truth will come out sooner or later. I've seen this happen sooo many times. Don't sweat it.
2006-09-02 18:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly someone told your friend a bunch of BS. A lot of folks thrive on drama and get their jollies out of messing up other peoples lives and relationships. I suggest u take a hard look at the people that your friend hangs around and when u find someone that likes to gossip and backstab others you have found the one who told the lie. Tell your friend u werent talking about them and not to believe everything they hear. You could also confront the person u suspect of telling the lies and just ask "why did u do it?" You have a better chance of getting to the bottom of this than just asking them "if" they were talking bs to your friend; that makes it just too easy to lie their way out of it and say they didnt. Do it my way and when they start stammering u know u got the right person. Then get your friend and the BS artist together and hopefully your friend will see what the truth is. It doesnt always work like that though; some ppl believe what they want to believe even when there is evidence to the contrary. Good luck!
2006-09-03 01:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by tborelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ,friendships are based on trust. If you have already discussed it ,and they still don't believe you ,then maybe your better off without them as a so called "friend". One way i have learned to stop all the she said/he said crap, is to gather all the people involved together , face to face, and set things straight. Saves a lot of time and effort, trust me. Some people will make things up if they decide that they no longer want to be friends with you. Your "friend" may have been looking for an excuse to sever ties with you. Don't sweat the small stuff in life, it causes wrinkles! Peace2U
2006-09-03 01:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by psykobarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why your friend thought you were talking about him/her behind their back? What did they think you were saying about them?
Sounds like your friend might be feeling a bit paranoid at the moment.
Or maybe they are not really a friend - just one of the people in a wider circle of people you mix with.
If its the latter - don't worry about it. But if they are a real friend, try and talk to them to find out what they are worried about and why they would worry about you talking about them.
2006-09-03 06:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by granny2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, hey im supposed to be your friend , friends dont talk behind peoples backs. or make up some really good story and say that you were talking behind her back but you were just saying how good he-she was looking today or something good about him-her
2006-09-03 01:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by curlybrunette911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them in the shin and run away!
In all honesty do you really want to remain friends with said individual if they treat you like that? All relationships are based on trust, if they don't trust you then they are not worth the bother and you should cut you're losses and not get wound up over it. Who needs enemies when you're so called mates do this...
ttfn ;o)
2006-09-03 01:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pan_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they dont beleive you then they cant be a good friend so get rid of them and find some better ones
2006-09-03 06:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by kygelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did't say anything or do anything wrong, leave it for now.Sooner or later the truth will come out. Then you can really have it out with your doubting friend
2006-09-03 03:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by cool chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you feel bad they think you talked behide their back.Tell them you really are a good friend.Tell them whoever told them differently may be jealous of your relationship.
2006-09-03 01:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask them where they got the information from and track it down or just let time go by and let the truth come out
2006-09-03 01:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋